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I'm getting slightly run down by the week. I wake up after nine hours of sleep and am still tired. Haven't run since Sunday. I should buckle down and push a little harder. Once I get past this test tomorrow my schedule will clear up and I'll be able to breathe in some fresh air.

Yesterday after a long day I went to free cone day at Ben and Jerry's, as invited by JS girl. She seems a lot more into me since the movie on Sunday, and right away starts flirting with me and laughing at everything I say. It pumps my state after a long day, and eventually I self amuse harder and harder, and my state gets really high. I practice building tension and proximity with her. I dance to the band. I make fun of everyone around me. I see some people I know and greet them. It's a grand old time and I'm almost crying at my own jokes. It was a much needed break, and but when I went back to the library afterwards to study more, I was so tired I could barely concentrate. This test might just be a wash, I've gotten 96's on the last two. I'll still study tonight, but I'm going to not stress about it at all.

I'm excited to practice escalation and proximity out in the field on Friday night, and to start implementing some of the stuff Daniel_Balboa taught me. Friday nights are always explosions of dancing, girls, and self amusement. This post is sort of just a brain dump. I feel like my brain is working through a slow haze right now, it's possible I need a severe break from school for a couple days to recharge. Just gotta last another day then I'm good. Keep playin, gangstas!

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Wednesday

The first lab of the day was good, Nothing of note other than a few flirty exchanges with RW girl, OD girl (another shorter girl from the lab), and KF girl. I keep spying SC girl looking at me. DR girl asks me for a bunch of help on her grant project, and I help her out in front of the whole class while everyone else is dissecting. Good social proof and value demonstration.

The second lab also goes well, some good exchanges of note: When I showed something on the dissection with SM girl, I got very close. Later on, I have a good, fun conversation with a bunch of girls and one guy about the test. AB girl stays after, as she always does. As soon as everyone else leaves, I can sense that she feels more awkward. We have some awkward conversation lol, she's so shy. I try on her bracelets. I show her something on the computer, and I touch her leg briefly with the back of my hand for emphasis. I'm standing closer and closer when I talk to her now.

After dinner, I head to the library to study my face off. I'm chowing down on Subway like a wolf at a steak banquet when SM girl says my name, and we have a dance off like we always do when we see each other. She laughs, and comes over to talk. She mentions that the other day she saw me walk past, but I didn't wave at her. I joke and say that it's cuz I hate her. She laughs. I say that it's probably cuz I just didn't see her. I tell her she should come down at study with me, she says okay, after I finish with my group project.

I text AB girl to see if she's at the library. SM girl eventually comes down, and we sit on two couches angled at an L, with a table that we both use. AB girl arrives, texting me that she was at Yoga, sorry! The three of us start studying together.

I start cracking jokes, and get both girls laughing their asses off. SM girl is a half Asian, studious, and her face just lights up when she laughs. She's fun, flirty, and has a great vibe. Also, she's super cute. AB girl is white, kind of hipster in a nerdy kind of way, and also has a great smile and laugh. Also super cute. They both use to dance. Dammit, why do they have to be dancers? That's not fair.

SM girl and I are hitting it off amazingly, make each other laugh like crazy, and AB girl is starting to get slightly jealous. She's kind of fake laughing, you know, the kind that's like, I don't find it as funny as you do but I want to find it funny type of laughing. A dude comes over, and chats with SM girl. He leaves. I tell SM girl that the dude wants to have her babies. That he wants her to impregnate him. SM girl jokes that she's got really powerful seed, the seed of destiny. From that point on, she starts laughing just about seed of destiny. It's infectious, and we spend the next 15 minutes laughing, stopping laughing, and then one of us starts and makes the other one start laughing again. She starts crying she's laughing so hard. I mention, "we are ridiculous." BOOM #game

We do more work. AB girl heads off to ask someone else a question. I cut all laughing and ask SM girl where she's from and about her high school life. We talk about school, and what she wants to do. The vibe is very slow, low energy, and with a lot of eye contact. Unfortunately, the proximity isn't close enough because we are on separate couches, and I can't get close enough to really physically escalate. That's okay, we're in the library anyways. the conversation has a lot of meaningful pauses, that she starts back up. When AB girl gets back, it's back to studying interspersed with joking around. In the middle of joking around SM girl reaches out and smacks my leg. #game

I make both girls laugh some more cuz I'm in a killer state. I go downstairs to get some tea. A guy and girl advertising free walking escort at night services greets me and tries to hand me a flier for self defense seminars. I mention that I already know martial arts. Then I get into a stance and yell "HIYAH!" They absolutely crack up dying. I get my tea and head back to the girls.

AB girl leaves again, and SM girl and I have more deep conversation. She asks me about my career plans, I do better than before, talking passionately about how much I love teaching. Somehow we transition to how she got creepy stalked by her high school volleyball coach. A creepy ass story, and she delivered it well.

AB girl gets back. We all exchange Snapchats and start sending each other ridiculous selfies. It's oodles of fun. SM girl is about to leave, but "remembers that she has some questions to do" and stays. AB girl leaves again. SM girl tells me another story about her old science teacher that accidentally showed child porn to his class. Lol. I tell her a story about how a middle school girl that I taught had a crush on me. At one point I had my foot up on her couch and she pinches my big toe. #game. I start initiating more incidental leg contact. I have a thought that I should put my feet up on her legs, but I don't do it. Later on, when I think about it, I tell myself next time, I'll just do it. At least I'm pushing myself out of my comfort zone by being more physical than before. She seems to catch the drift that we are being more physical, and I get more signals. Soon enough, it's time to go cuz the library is closing.

We pack up, and SM girl lingers a little longer. I tell her I'm waiting for AB girl cuz all her stuff is down here. She lingers a little while longer, we exchange some more slow, silent eye contact, and eventually she leaves. AB girl comes back, and we head out. While we're walking side to side, I get close and make some arm to arm contact. We joke around a bit, and then eventually part ways, I couldn't escalate because there were people around, including other girls from the lab that I teach.

Afterwards, while I'm going to sleep, SM girl sends me some more snapchats and we exchange a line of text or two. AB girl texts me, and we exchange a couple lines of text.

The next morning, I proctor their test. SM girl greets me walking in. She had sent me a good morning snapchat earlier. During the test, AB girl comes up to ask a bunch of questions. I take the opportunity to stand very close, make eye contact, and whisper close. Proximity, baby! #game

Also, MB girl was at the test, and we smiled at each other while she was handing it in. I hope she finishes sewing up my jacket soon so I can reward her with a date or something.

All in all, good practice being more physical and pushing myself to do things outside my comfort zone! Next time, I won't hesitate and just put my feet up on her legs. I plan on trying out Jason Capital's technique: Notice her hands, and say, "You've got big hands, don't you?" and then take her hands and look at them. Or notice a bracelet and take her hand to look at it. Then notice the size of her hands and do the size comparison palm to palm thingy.

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Thursday

Basically stopped caring about this test. Took it, and was like honey badger don't give a fuck. Afterwards, ran 10 miles in the freezing rain. GANGSTA! FaceTime'd with HS girl, she misses me like a fat kid misses glucose.

Friday morning

Self amused like crazy in the morning lab where we tested VO2 max on a couple students. It's a test where they basically run harder and harder till they can't run anymore. Yowza! I nap during office hours. AB girl snapchats me a pic of me passed out. I text her:

Me: Omg no you didn't

Her: hahahahahaha

Me: Literally just woke up

Her: Well I'm glad I got that shot before you did

Me: Food later?

Her: I hope you don't use other girls for food
Her: Lol
Her: But yeah cause I'm the best

Me: You are the best. I'll text you around 5ish

Maybe I should've responded with something cheeky to her first comment. Anyways, it'll be a good opportunity to practice proximity and escalation. BOOM

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The weekend was filled with escapades. AB girl basically went to the supermarket with her friends and then to Cafe Mexicali, and brought me a burrito for the Cafe. I meet up with her, she gives me the burrito, I give her a hug (she hugs me around me neck), and then I meet up with MC bro. We troll a meetup event with some other folks.

I dressed up like a gangsta, red collared shirt with a necklace and bracelet, dark pants, gangsta belt and boots. MC bro wears red pants with a tie and a dark collared shirt. Another one of our friends, MO bro, also goes with a red collared shirt, but with a tie. Because we're all wearing red, it looks gay as hell.

CY girl and R girl arrive, we hug them and greet them, and start talking to the random meetup people, both guys and girls. I'm emulating MC bro the whole time, and taking note as he leans back, leans in to whisper something in the girl's ear, isolates girls by bringing them in to sit down, etc. etc. I'm self amusing, and getting a lot more comfortable with being more physical. CY girl is flirting a lot, and getting drunk. She keeps twisting my nipples. We joke about bathroom sex. She's really hand-sy. She's also flirting with MC bro, though. There's a slammin' engaged girl in a red dress, A girl, that MC bro wants to bang. He isolates her and they're chatting one on one for a long time, but nothing beyond that. We head to blind pig and start dancing.

I dance dirty with a bunch of girls, and talk to MC bro a bit. I ask him for advice (he's better on the dance floor), and he tells me that I should dance sexy, not goofy and fun. I take his advice to heart, and try to bring out my sexy side more. MO bro ends up making out with a cute older girl, MC bro mentions how he's jealous, that girl's sexy as hell. Props to MO bro, sometimes you just have to go for it. I danced with that girl too, and she was one of the ones that was more down. It goes to show that if you push harder with girls that are down, you get rewarded.

MC bro and I leave, and hit up rec room together. I'm feeling lower energy now, and didn't feel great for the second half of the night, but MC bro starts buying me drinks to get me riled up. I tell him to do me a favor and call me a pussy to make me start approaching. He complies. I comply. I get blown out on a dance floor approach, probably because I came in from the back and tapped her on the shoulder to ask for permission. #nogame

I approach another group, self amuse a little too hard, and the girls get annoyed and peace out when I stalwartly assert that my real name is Bruce Lee. I approach a girl sitting by herself, it goes neutral. Satisfied that I've proved to myself (and in the back of my stupid brain, to MC bro) that I'm a man with balls, we leave to grab calzones. We talk about our different goals with girls. We conclude that MC bro should push me in the beginning of the night to start approaching (it's been a loooooooong time since I've done cold approach pick-up hahahaha) so I can gather momentum.

The last girl of the night that I approached arrives at the food place. I call her over. The three of us chat, and it goes well. She enjoys the interaction, probably because neither of us give a shit and we are just self-amusing. MC bro got the number of a cute blonde girl at rec room, but I can tell he's already in trouble by the way he's talking about her: "She's so hot, she probably just wants frat guys, I'm so intimidated by hot girls that know they're hot, etc. etc."

We peace out, and I vow that I'm going to start cold approaching again to build up my skills.

Saturday I wake up and head to the library. I do a bunch of work, and randomly AB girl walks by and greets me. I smirk at her and talk to her. She starts giggling in between talking. We make small chat and eventually she leaves. I do some more work and then I leave.

I head to Odell's, for my friend E bro's birthday. A bunch of my old Jiu Jitsu friends are there, and it's nice to see everyone and goof off with everyone. There's a couple of pretty girls at the table, and I'm making everyone laugh, but the pretty girls are all married, lol. Nonetheless, it's fun and it's good practice. We grab pizza after and then AH bro, CN girl (his wife), and I go to Crankenstein's so that I can meet up with CG girl. We meet up with her, and AH bro comments how every time he sees me I'm with a new girl.

I go in with CG girl, and she seems slightly off. I'm still practicing escalation for the hell of it. She says something and I lean in and tell her she's making me hard. She laughs and tells me I better slow my roll. We get in, I meet her friend, and CG girl and I sit down to chat. Our legs are touching. We chat more. Then we get up, I put my hands on her shoulders as we walk through the crowd to the band. We dance together a little. I get up behind her and she leans back into me. I get greeted by another female friend. Then another. The first one, HH girl (tri girl from awhile ago), is animatedly talking to me.

I get greeted by another bro. CG girl is talking to a friend, so I take the opportunity to talk to my friends. Then CG girl is awkwardly standing around while I talk to my friends. CG girl then needs to go, and asks me to walk her out. I walk her to her bike, and she starts with, "I gotta be honest..." I instantly pick up on what's up, smile, and say, "Oh I understand, no worries." She says, "You don't even know what I was going to say!" I reply with "I can guess," still smirking. She's like, "Yeah, I just don't see it working out," I'm completely emotionally unaffected, lol, and she comments, "You're so stoic," I tell her I can cry if it will make her feel better, and mime crying. She actually starts feeling offended that I don't care at all. Lol. I bid her good night, and go to meet up with Z bro at Trailhead.

I'm actually pretty impressed with myself about how little I cared. I think it might have been the comment earlier that week that I made that offended her, plus I actually didn't think that we got along all that great anyways. It was good practice using her as a crash dummy for escalation tactics, so I must thank her for that.

Z bro and I sit and have a great chat. We start talking about girls, and I find out that Z bro is actually pretty good, and someone that I can learn from. We start exchanging stories. I tell him about how I don't have trouble attracting and getting into rapport with girls, but I have trouble escalating in a one on one situation, and he tells me how he's the exact opposite. He shares his escalation techniques. He tells me about the time he got crabs, I tell him about the time I got chlamydia. We share out mutual hatred of condoms, but I let him know that I will definitely be using them in the future, lol. I tell him the now infamous HR girl poop sex story, he laughs his ass off. A group of three girls join in right next to us, and Z bro, being a true gentleman, gives up his chair and gets two more chairs for the girls. They love him for it. We chat very briefly, and I am definitely impressed at how a seemingly chode-y behavior can come off as not needy at all, and truly gentleman-ly, if done with the right sub communications. I vow to hang out with Z bro and MC bro more to learn as much as I can from these two fine gentlemen.

CM girl (a girl I TA'd last semester, super hot) and her friend, A girl, arrive and greet us. We chat a bit about Mormonism (they're both ex-Mormons), and the conversation is nice and friendly. I didn't game super tightly, maybe just cuz CM girl was super hot. Need to shake my head and get that shit out of my system. They eventually leave, and we leave, too. We should've talked to the three set from before, because we already had an in, but Z bro and I both brain farted on that one.

We get to Lucky Joe's, and sit, and Z bro is feeding me alcohol the entire time. What a stand up guy. JK bro arrives (prodigy), and we all sit and chat about game. It's a good vibe, and all three of us are laughing and having a good time. We have another round of beers, and sing along with the performer. A cute girl is sitting right next to me, but with her back to me. She turns around and looks at me, I say something witty, and she laughs and turns around. The rest of the time, I should've engaged more, but the angle was awkward and the music was loud. I'm probably just making excuses and should just nut the fuck up. I don't feel any approach anxiety, but I do feel a lack of motivation. It's so much easier to sit and chill. Don't worry, I'll turn this around, it's just like getting back on a bicycle.

The three of us leave, and go to blind pig. Z bro buys 2 shots!!! of Fireball and a PBR for each of us. Holy shit, I'm gonna get smoked like a piece of meat off this. I wasn't even planning on drinking at all. We down those, I make brief eye contact with a tall raven sitting next to her chubby friend, all lonely like. I tell JK bro I'm going to approach, and then I do. Maybe that's the key, as soon as I tell a bro I'm going to approach, I'm kind of locked in and can't back out without being a huge pussy. Gaming yourself is more important that gaming the girl.

It's an awkward bar angle, but whatever. I lean up, say hi, and introduce myself. We start chatting. I start getting some good responses, the girls are fun and give me shit, I call them on their bullshit, and we go back and forth. They ask me what I do, I need to practice my vision speech more. Don't worry, I'll get this down too. I start touching the tall girl on her arm, and leaning in to whisper. Good practice. A dude comes in that they both know, and ruins the vibe. They both turn around, and I'm awkwardly on the outside, so I eject. Afterwards, I realize that I should've immediately addressed the guy. Next time!

Z bro, JK bro, and I play big Jenga. Girls come in and out, and I flirt and practice on them, but by know I'm wasted out of my mind. Damnit, I'm going to stop drinking in the future, but I can't help it if people buy me drinks! I didn't pay a single cent the entire night! A girl approaches me, asks me if she can play, I reply that I don't know, I'm not sure how cool she is yet. She leaves. Oops. More girls come, one girl keeps calling me drunk-face. I practice physicality on her. Z bro's unattractive friend, CoCo girl, arrives. I tell her I'm Coo Coo for CoCo Puffs. We start taking pictures. I point to my cheek and CoCo kisses it. I rest my head on her boobs. Yup I'm drunk. Good experience, though.

DR girl, a girl from my lab, randomly sees me, and enthusiastically gives me a hug and is SO excited to see me, before her fat friend drags her off. She keeps randomly catching my eye contact throughout the night, but I'm drunk as fuck to properly game.

We go to Bondi's dance a bunch, I dance with CoCo girl and another random girl mostly, and then Z bro drives me home.

Sunday I do more work throughout the day, and then hang out with JS girl later. We grab food, watching Furious 7, and call it a night. She's super into me now, and I'm like meh. It's still fun hanging with her though, and good practice.

Monday morning, I go to the park and do a photo shoot so my OKC profile and Tinder profile will get some SICK photos on it, and I'll start gaming on there more.

ANALYSIS

Starting to get back into cold approach, and it'll take a week or two to get back in the swing of it. All about gaming myself to make myself approach.
- When I know I should approach, tell a friend that I will approach.
- Approach early in the night so I have momentum the rest of the night.

Physical Escalation starting to feel normal and comfortable
- Watching RSD and Liam McRae on YouTube for good examples of this.
- Hanging around and talking to MC bro and Z bro more
- Practicing this more and more, and it should feel totally comfortable and normal soon

I also have a problem, a bad habit where whenever girls show interest, I make it more of a challenge or I brush them off and play disinterested. This is absolute garbage, and foolish, and I need to retrain myself to reward with my own interest whenever they show interest.
- Going to reward when girls show interest with either kino, or good conversation with good emotions.

Also going to practice hooking a set better with the technique "Become an authority in her world", or as RSD calls it, "Tell her about herself". Everyone wants to hear about themselves, and this is why old school tactics like U/C smiles and the Cube worked so well. I will come up with my own or try out Jason Capital's "Oath face" routine in the future, this will definitely help in hooking sets quickly and efficiently.
- Come up with my own routine so I stay congruent don't feel like a PUA dumbass if I whip this out

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Monday- I go to a photo shoot in the morning, get my portraits taken at city park by a pretty model girl. We chat, but she's slightly shy, awkward in conversation, and seemingly already taken. She takes my photos and comments on how I should be a model because I'm tall and I "know all the poses already". No clue what that means, other than the fact that these photos will be baller and make my phone explode with Tinder notifications.

I go to school and work all day, and at 5:30 I run while JS girl longboards along. We go to city park and do the fitness loop there, that involves a bunch of pull-ups, pushups, sit-ups, and stretching. I get in a good run, grab some thai food, and hit up the library. I run into OD girl and AH girl, both from my first lab on Wednesdays. I start chatting with them, and they're giggling all over the place at everything I say. I ask them if it's just them two, and they invite me to sit down and study with them. I obligingly grace them with my presence.

OD girl is a cute, short, mix-race girl with a bf. She's smart and funny. AH girl is also cute, skinny, medium-height, and blonde.

We all chat and laugh together, and pretty soon AH girl is teasing me, "negging" me, and flirting with me. Every time she tries to neg / tease, I just look at her and smirk, and she's like, "just kidding, just kidding". Lol. I flirt back a bit. Pretty soon we start talking about drug experiences. AH girl is asking me questions. Then we start talking about sex. The mood is light and fun. The conversation gets pretty sexual, and I use some shock humor when I talk about having sex in water: "I don't like it because the water washes away all the pussy juice." <-- said with a straight face. The girls jaws hit the floor and they giggle uncontrollably. I Facebook them both and we talk about the pictures. AH girl complains how she doesn't look good in them, but I tell her she looks beautiful in them. Boom, problem from before corrected. OD girl asks me about my love life. I play coy, then give in and give them the lowdown. I start packing up to go, and AH girl asks me more questions to try to make me stay. The only physical contact I'm instigated is a high five with her, and some eye contact, but nothing else, because we were with her friend and it was in public. I've seeded well for the future though. It's hard to isolate with these girls on campus without a good reason. I'll seed a dinner on campus meetup or something if it's convenient. Unfazed out!

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The first lab of the day was good, Nothing of note other than a few flirty exchanges with RW girl, OD girl (another shorter girl from the lab), and KF girl. I keep spying SC girl looking at me. DR girl asks me for a bunch of help on her grant project, and I help her out in front of the whole class while everyone else is dissecting. Good social proof and value demonstration.
Hey man,

Thought I'd just check out the competition.

Just kidding, nice game by the way XP

So reading your stuff it seems like a lot of your 'approaches' seem to take an indirect social route, am I right? Or do you cold approach also? Where do you think the best potential lies?


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And some eye contact
This x 1,000.

In a situation like this, don't underestimate the power a deep gaze can have. If you are truly embracing the frame I talked about the other day, it will come through in your eye contact in even the most innocent situations. For day game and social circle game and all sorts of other situation where you can't directly show a lot of interest and escalation on a girl, looking into her eyes is your greatest weapon.

There's a lot more that could be said, but for now, just keep looking the girls you are interested in deep in the eyes and wrap it in some slow, controlled, and relaxec subcomms with your facial expression, body language, etc... and they'll be getting shivers.


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to JH- I used to cold approach a shitload. If you go back to the beginning of the journal, you'll see I did somewhere between 500-600 cold approaches in the first 5 months of learning game, then I switched to social circle game. Right now I'm doing a combination of both, I don't really have time to run around campus all day cold approaching.

to Daniel Balboa- I've been practicing this a lot. I was in the jacuzzi in the campus rec center the other day, forgot to write about this. I sat down in the jacuzzi, and a cute girl comes in and sits down close to me. I'm relaxed, and after a couple seconds I make eye contact with her. I hold it for a couple seconds, and then break into a smile. She immediately looks away hahahaha. I think it was cuz she was nervous. I'll be practicing this a lot more, and trying to hold it without smiling a little longer.

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The first lab of the day was good, Nothing of note other than a few flirty exchanges with RW girl, OD girl (another shorter girl from the lab), and KF girl. I keep spying SC girl looking at me. DR girl asks me for a bunch of help on her grant project, and I help her out in front of the whole class while everyone else is dissecting. Good social proof and value demonstration.
Hey man,

Thought I'd just check out the competition.

Just kidding, nice game by the way XP

So reading your stuff it seems like a lot of your 'approaches' seem to take an indirect social route, am I right? Or do you cold approach also? Where do you think the best potential lies?
When you've got good social circle game gaming is MUCH easier.

No more hoping that a girl doesn't shoot you down or run away - they are more likely to engage because comfort is automatically established. You also don't have to worry as much about mistakes because unlike with cold approach they won't drop off the face of the planet - you'll see them again and you have the opportunity to re-engage and correct your mistakes.

With good social circle game, the girls will come to YOU because you've established a positive reputation and word of mouth which women are drawn to


The negatives though...
Social circle game takes a while to get going properly. You have more things to figure out (e.g. establishing a GOOD social circle/network, places to hold get togethers, etc) Not only that, you may sometimes have to be a bit discreet and careful with who you're chasing and when. Options are limited because you WILL get in trouble if you are having serious intimate relationships with more than a couple women.


Best idea is to combine cold approach and "warm" approach tactics like social circle game. Diversify your PUA investment.


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^^truth

I had a killer social circle with a million hot girls, but it involved lots of planning and scheduling. Started dating HR girl back in like October or something, and then when we broke up the entire social circle disbanded. I think my mistake was I let it escape the casual zone and she started thinking it was super serious so she was super crushed, and she didn't even want to be friends anymore

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to Daniel Balboa- I've been practicing this a lot. I was in the jacuzzi in the campus rec center the other day, forgot to write about this. I sat down in the jacuzzi, and a cute girl comes in and sits down close to me. I'm relaxed, and after a couple seconds I make eye contact with her. I hold it for a couple seconds, and then break into a smile. She immediately looks away hahahaha. I think it was cuz she was nervous. I'll be practicing this a lot more, and trying to hold it without smiling a little longer.
Tbh, I can't really see the point of eyes anymore it's just a psychology game that girls play that leads absolutely nowhere. Sometimes I outstare the girl if she is looking at me, sometimes she gets the better and outstares me but either way it doesn't really matter unless you go over and speak to her. Best thing is you just find a cute girl that seems receptive and approach. Doesn't matter what eye games (if any) she's playing. Personally I've only had one interaction where this was not the case and it got a little awkward, other times girls seem to find it sexy but it doesn't lead anywhere else. I mainly do it now as a way to maintain control and protect my own frame if I feel it's being challenged. Eye games are probably better WHEN you're actually talking and in those situations they go well with use of silence to project the fact you are an alpha male. But no matter what there will be situations where you have to break first.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 23, 2015 3:41 am 
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To clarify... I am specifically talking about the power of eye contact once you are already talking to a girl. Not just looking at a girl you've never talked to.

Basically, my point was that very early in an interaction (or deeper in the interaction when the setting isn't conducive to verbal or physically escalating on a girl), having your subcomms dialed in while you are talking is a very powerful escalation tool.

I could be talking to a girl at a coffee shop about the quality of the coffee and still have her comment later that there's just something very sexual about my presence.

That's what I'm talking about.

It's the way you look into a girl when she's talking. The way you move. The look in your eyes and the expressions you make.

All of this conveys that you know you could change her life with one finger. And she'll pick up on that. It's subtle but at the same time it's clear that you aren't hiding a damn thing and you are proud to be the fucking dirtball you are and you aren't scared to show you are interested in her.

And finally, it shows a lot of social tact to be able to do that in a subdued environment without saying a word.

Drives girls nuts and also forms a deeper bond.

It's one of the most important things.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 23, 2015 7:33 am 
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Wednesday

Epic day! Practice pays off... read on to see what I mean.

The day started innocently enough. I teach the first lab, RW girl mentions that we should work on our papers together. She's dressed up more than usual. So is AH girl. During the class, AH girl tries to flirt with me twice, and I semi reward her. I walk around and talk with everyone, but my state wasn't super high that class.

The second lab started, and it goes decently as well. SM girl is engaging me a lot and making a lot of eye contact, great. AB girl seems to be in a good mood. SC girl, the really hot one, is warmer and more receptive to engaging. Afterwards, AB girl stays to "study" as always. She asks me if I can help her study for evolutionary biology. Mmmmhmm, I smell girl game.

We study together for awhile. She comes up to the board a couple times, and proximity is starting to feel a lot more comfortable. So does eye contact. Somewhere in the midst of this we agree that we're going to grab food together afterwards. As we study a bit and chat about random things, we hit on the subject of her family (hint: I took it there). She opens up and talks at length about her fucked up family, her crazy mom, divorced dad, and siblings. It was good emotional bonding, rapport building shit. This girl is so giggly all I have to do is smirk and hold eye contact and she starts giggling.

I try to swing the topic more sexual a couple times by talking about my past relationships. She doesn't join me in bringing up her own experiences. I let it slide. I teach her a couple things after looking over her evo bio exams, incidental contact between our legs is normal now. I show her a couple things on the skeleton in the room, and I use the teaching lesson as an excuse to hold her hand touch her arm a bit. #game

As we're standing next to the skeleton, we're standing pretty close, and the thought runs through my mind to kiss her. I don't, for bullshit reasons like it's in the room that I teach in, if anyone sees I'm instantly fired, etc. etc.

We head to go eat, I can tell she feels nervous at times because of how awkward her conversation skills are at times. She's very giggly, though, and super cute. The girl's a sophomore, not even old enough to drink.

We arrive and start grabbing food. I get some social proof while grabbing food by another student from another lab (thankfully) greeting me. When we sit, unfortunately we sit on opposite sides of the table. We chat about random bullshit (food mostly), but I start slowing down, smirking and holding eye contact more, and teasing her, and she starts giggling more and more. We play 2 truths and a lie. She wins, cuz I'm an idiot and need to practice that game more. She tries to play it again with me, and randomly forgets certain things I've already told her (aka she's nervous). All good signs, my friend. This girl is marinated and ripe for the kissing. I concoct a plan in my brain, and offer to drive her back up to North Campus afterwards, because my car is near (I'll kiss her on the way to the car). Unfortunately, she says she's just going to longboard back cuz it's a nice day, after a slight hesitation. Before we leave, I hug her, and she giggles, saying it's funny that I'm hugging her, etc. etc.

I go back to my lab, and exhausted, take a nap for 2 hours. I wake up around 9:30 pm with a text from AB girl:

Hey are you in the library tonight... Or do you have time to meet up tomorrow before 3 by any chance. I'm trying to figure out my evolution homework and I just need to figure out one question so it wouldn't take long if you could help and I'm an idiot and should have asked you to help me earlier lol

My brain thinks opportunity, and I once again figure out the best way to set this up. The AZ building (the one I'm in) is a lot more secluded, so I send her:

Yeah, I'm at the AZ building, you want to come down here?

She replies: Ugh yes you are a god

After a little bit, she shows up, and we sit at a round table. She sits down across from me, too far away. I start looking at her homework, the vibe is lower energy, and I maintain a friend distance for a bit. I smirk and make eye contact, and she giggles. We are in an atrium, but there's no one else around. After looking at and discussing her homework for a little bit, I use some excuse as I'm writing stuff down on a notebook to teach her shit to pull her chair with my foot closer to we're almost side by side. Tension is rising, bitches.

Our faces are closer, and we start making eye contact. Our legs keep touching, and she's comfortable enough to hold the leg contact. After awhile, though, she takes the pressure off by backing up towards her side of the table again.

We talk a bit more about random bullshit, and she offers me some gum. I take it.

She keeps asking me more questions to prolong the homework session, looking for excuses for me not to call it quits. We get up and look at the fish tanks some more, and we start talking about the different animals in the tanks. I use the opportunity to escalate more, touching her back, getting closer, etc. This continues for a long time, and tension is rising again. We sit back down after awhile. I know this is the best chance I'm going to get, and if I don't bring home the bacon then I'd be a giant pussy monster. After a little bit more fluff, I get the idea out of the blue to pull out the kiss close line. I hesitate for the second, yell at myself in my head to stop being a pussy, and just go for it: Do you want to kiss me?

She's shocked, and asks: Are you being serious right now?

She turns bright red, and is giggling. I'm just holding steady eye contact: Yes, and you're bright red.

She replies: I don't know how else you'd expect me to react. I mean, I don't know...

Me: Let's find out...

I slide my chair right up to hers, slowly lean in, and we kiss for maybe half a minute, real slow and sensual. I caress her face with one hand. I'm stupidly lost in enjoying the kiss, and forget to pull back first. I open my eyes, and she senses the change in energy, opens her eyes, and pulls back first. Dammit! I should've pulled back first. I keep it cool, though. I say: I guess now we know, *smirk*.

Then we just go back to talking about the homework. It's a more relaxed vibe, and then at the end after we finish I offer to drive her back to North. I make her giggle / laugh a couple more times, and I drop her off. Car makeouts are so awkward cuz it involves so much leaning, so I just let her out and we bid each other good night.

BOOM!

Analysis: Good physical escalation, verbal not as good. Kiss closing is good, need to be able to turn a girl on more with the kissing. Should pull back first, and bust out a sexual energy spiking line right after: "If we weren't in public I'd do terrible things to you right now." My heart still pounds during the escalation process, so I need to just get used to it enough that I'm used to the feeling. That'll just come from experience.

I'm proud of the progress, though. This girl is super cute and freaking 9 years younger than me. It's great practice. We'll see how this one turns out!

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 24, 2015 3:04 am 
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Nice! That's awesome. You hung in there, enjoyed the slow boil and went for it. YES.

Re: pulling back first. Yeah, it can be helpful and perhaps ideally you can pull back first and tease her for more (i.e. hold it so close and say something like "I know you want to keep going...") or start moving to her neck or something...

But you can't read a girl's mind so it's impossible to always be the one who pulls away first. It's just going to happen.

The important thing is to remember the frame we talked about the other day: You both want each other and there's no hiding it. You had the right idea with just maintaining your composure and holding stalwart with the comment you made.

But don't stop there! Game = progression. So you should have kept pushing.

After she pulled away, I probably would have pursued further. You can say something like "I know, I know, this is so bad. We're supposed to be studying." Meanwhile, you are nibbling on her neck or putting your face "in" her hair while you say that in her ear.

Or, even if she pulls away first, you can go down the path you mentioned in your analysis, albeit a little less hard-care. So she pulls away and you just kind of sit there staring at her, looking at her lips, her neck, and don't say anything for a few long moments. Then just say "God, why did we just do that? Now all I can think about is how badly I want to kiss you even more."

And who cares about the space in between you in the car? Grab a hold of the back of her hair and pull her in to get what you want! This girl is young. I can almost promise you she's never had a really aggressive, dominant experience like this before. That means you'll be blowing her mind and things like leaning in a little bit to pull her to you for a kiss are non-considerations.

I see things taking off for you.


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