Hello everyone!
I've a question about a particular situation i'm in.
There is this girl i'm
sort of talking to. I know her for a long time, maybe 8 years or so. I first met her at a mountain resort but did not have much of an interaction.
A few months to a year later i meet her again at a party. We talk a little and i get the impression she's in to me, but i had other "priorities" at the time so nothing happens. We do however start talking online, as i've realize how hot she actually is. We talk for some time and we set a meeting. As is the nature of AFCs, the World conspires against my good intentions and the "date" doesn't materialize (to no fault of her own). She moves to a different city for study, and i'm
for a missed opportunity.
One year or so ago (maybe 2), i happen to find her on Facebook. I'm in awe at how gorgeous she is. Really one of the most if not the most beautiful girl i've ever seen. I know i have to say something, no matter the cost.
I start of with lite conversation, but soon enough, i find out she is in a relationship, so i do a strategic retreat. Waiting in ambush for a sign of weakness in the enemy lines. In the mean time i keep contact by just wishing happy b-days, happy holidays, etc. She responds politely.
Great success! A few months back all the stupid boy friend pictures on her profile go away. We alert high command and prepare for the offensive.
I engage in some small talk, share some common memories. I share a picture i had of her from the mountain resort and she replays very happy and nostalgic, tells me i just made her day much happier. She post a picture of her at work giving the "victory" signal (what's up with all the girls making that sign in every picture?!)
A week or so latter i decide to unleash the armoured battalions for the crushing blow against a hopefully very much suspecting enemy. Powered by a little bit of alcohol we give the ultimatum: a coffee meeting. Reads the text, but no response. I wait a couple days and i give her a one liner :"not a coffee person then". Reads, but no response.
Feeling like i've shown all my cards, i don't know what to do or say anymore. So the question is: is it worth continuing in any way and if so how? Or is it just time to forget about it?