Its a subject I have heavily researched over the years.
Yes men can get HIV/AIDS from women though normal sex.
Yes, 100% there is risk.
But it is not "Just as easily". In the interest's of reminding strictly factual ( hoping dumb people wont get the wrong the message) see the following txt.
"It's much harder for men to get HIV from women, but it does happen. HIV does not live long outside the body. A man's penis is only exposed to HIV for the time that it is in a vagina or rectum. Men also may have fewer areas on the penis where the virus can enter the body. HIV can enter at the opening of the tip and through cuts or sores on the shaft. But if a partner has an untreated sexually transmitted infection (STI) like syphilis, gonorrhea, or chlamydia, the risk is higher. These infections can bring more CD4 cells to the area of infection, or cause breaks in the skin, both increasing the risk of passing HIV. Meanwhile, women have a higher risk of getting HIV from men. Because HIV is in the man's semen, which can stay in the woman's vagina for days, her exposure time is longer after sex. Also, the vagina provides a much larger area than the penis does through which HIV can enter the woman's body"
Source US Govenment. http://www.womenshealth.gov/hiv-aids/wh ... -aids.html
( there are 1000's of other medical sites/links/docs if you simply do the research in the right places from official health sources and organizations)
Its a risk, but one I have taken many times in past. ( Unfortunatly not so much these last year but thats anther story) Otherwise I would better not fuck them or just let them suck me off or summut. Cos sex with condom is shit for me. Really, Although if I got desperate and had to fuck a like a girl who you knew was fucked by low value humans from certain high risk back grounds then of course I would use. For sure.
Don't want to ague or thing like this i am just saying what it is for me and what I have learnt on the subject but i do fully accept that using a condom is the safest and smartest thing to do. But for me, If i like her, and she looks clean, (the whole thing) then I take my bet.
In any case, thanks for the well meant advise.