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Hey everyone, I am pretty new to pickup and I have another question. I Wasn't quite sure where to put this but a couple weeks ago I had 3 friends and 4 girls over so we could all hang out(Goal was for each one of us to hook up with one of them) It was Friday night and we started off drinking some vodka and tequila. I would say we were buzzed but nobody was drunk. Anyway, I started talking to one of the girls and felt like she was interested in me so I made her my target. I made small talk, flirted, screwed up a little, recovered etc. Her, her friend, and myself were smoking by the fireplace and sitting on a bed near it in the back. She finished her smoke and went in, I thought to myself ''okay, I have to do something'' so I ran a routine I think I read in ''the game'' or on here. I said ''Bet you my next drink I can beat you in rock paper scissors''
She replied ''okay, bet'' we play and she throws rock, I lose. I couldn't remember exactly what to say but I said '' I knew you would throw rock'' to which she replied '' Why because you're psychic'' (Made a joke earlier). I laughed and said '' No, when someone throws rock its usually a sign of confidence'' she interrupts '' I am confident''! I say '' Are you confident enough to kiss me''? Then we started making out. Here's where I think it went south, We made out for a minute or 2 then I stopped and said ''I don't know, I think you need to earn the rest'' and I smiled and so did she. We talked for a minute and I realized I should have just kept kissing her instead of trying to build anticipation or whatever I was attempting to do. So I said '' You know, I think I need to kiss you again. We start making out again for a minute or so and then she got up, said ''Hey, I'm gonna go inside'' to do whatever it was she said. I said okay, I was gonna do whatever it was I said and I went inside. I talked with my friend after(Hes pretty good at picking up girls) He said I should have started feeling her up and such. What surprised me is he said that when I stopped and told her she needed to earn the rest that it was a good thing! I think I should have kept kissing her, started kissing her neck and I should have started doing some kino. What do you guys think I should have done differently? If it matters, I am 17. Girl was 16 and she was down to do more. I just think I screwed up. I am probably going to bring some girls over with a few friends again soon so any advice is appreciated.
Thanks.
Edit: I forgot to include, after we went inside she later started dancing. She started grinding on me and she had no problem with me putting my hands on her. But, I went to kiss her inside in front of her friends and she didn't want to. I think she might have been uncomfortable because she was the only one out of her friends that was grinding and making out with someone. One of my friends left to get another girl, the other doesn't really have any game, and the third didn't really want to get with any of them. They seemed more interested in drinking and their iphones than my friends. I even encouraged them to start dancing too! I don't really blame them though because like I said, my one frend has no game and the other wasn't interested.
remember the ABC rule - Always Be Closing.
when it comes to making out, think of a kiss just to let her know you have balls and to seal the fact that out like each other, not to turn her on. kisses should only be 1 or 2 seconds.
you turned into "that makeout guy" which looks like an awesome place to be in but the "that guy" never gets laid because he makes out too much. you need to take things farther, you should have made an excuse to bouncer her to a new place and escalated from there. you really dont want to grope her in front of everyone because she will feel like a slut. but then again idk if you guys were alone in that area.
but for being new, you did a great job
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