Ok you seem like a pretty cool dude. You have experience in game so that is a plus. And you've met someone you like. That's awesome! So let's look at what we got:
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I came on too strong.
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I started 'liking' whatever crap she put up on FB
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I then suggested sending her something for Valentine's Day
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having a relationship with your phone
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it has verged on One-Itis
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I did have that problem once before and the relationship I was in ended because of it.
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I don't want advice as "forget her"
Can you tell me what all of these things have in common?
You were being very needy. And what happened? Your last relationship ended because of that. And now this one might not even start because of it. I'm not trying to come off as a d*ck. but that is the cold hard truth.
Now, I want you to just visualize for a second that you are in Heaven - bare with me.. - and you got everything you could possibly want. Women, money, chicks to suck your d*ck at your command. You got it all at the snap of your finger. But after a while... well... wouldn't you... get bored of that?
So how do you think this girl you are talking to feels? You've liked all her facebook statuses, you're texting her all the time, she's getting it all from you man! Don't you think she might be well... Getting a bit bored? There is no chase.
You can change all this but you have to work on yourself, your inner game. One very important thing you have to do is, you have to learn to not care. Not care if she or any girl, doesn't reply. Not care what you say -you want to keep your thoughts words and actions aligned- and say what you think. Whatever the first thing that you think you should say, say it. It gives the girl a change to experience the real you.
It's like when you step on a lego in the middle of the night. Some people just don't say anything, but they are saying "Aw f*ck" in their heads. Other people however just say "Aw f*ck" because they have their thoughts words and actions aligned. You want to be like that! The sooner that you do not care, the sooner you will rid yourself from that "I am needy" mentality. This sadly doesn't happen over night.
My best advice to you, other than what I have already said is to keep her off your mind the best you can for as long as you can. If you have sent her one text. Do not send another one until she replys. Also start talking to other people. It will help you get out of that Oneitis Mindset. Last I just want to say I think you should purchase the book Models by Mark Manson. It has a lot of info on how to develop your inner game. And I think it is something you really should take a look at.