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It's this very same desire for a woman that turns us into clingy/needy men who become upset when a woman rejects us, ignores us, or doesn't text us back.
Not when you see every interaction as an experiment and as something to learn from. Sure feelings may be hurt from time to time, but in general what do you care about a rejection when you're on your way to your place to meet a girl who be there to meet you in a few minutes.
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It's this very same desire for a woman that traps us in severe cases of oneitis.
It's this very same desire for a woman that prevents a man from getting over his ex and meeting new women.
It's this very same desire for a woman that causes us to become attached to the outcome and fall victim to her disapproval.
Only for those who do not possess and live by attitudes of abundance when it comes to the women in their life.
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what should our motivations be
I'll borrow a quote from one of the posters here:
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"Here's your motivation: Women are very pretty naked. Their skin is so very soft and supple and wonderful to touch. They give blowjobs and have vaginas."
You're a very intelligent dude but that intelligence is causing you to lament on some things that are unproductive when it comes to your ultimate happiness.
After all,
It's this very same desire for a woman that causes her to bring us breakfast in bed and then climb on us for a ride.