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2.) I can't f-close them on the first date if I'm looking for a LTR. This might be blasphemy to the rest of the community, but I can't date someone I don't respect, and I can't respect someone that I can easily game into bed within an hour of meeting - it just doesn't work for me. So if they're relationship material, I'd rather leave them wanting and drag it out, even if other guys are 100% convinced they have ways to get her to do otherwise.
I will not fault you for having your values, but what you say sort of contradicts itself. You can't respect a woman that you fuck right after meeting her, but at the same time how can you give her that respect if you don't try to fuck her? You have given yourself an illogical limitation which seems more like an excuse for not trying and maybe even avoiding rejection. If you're okay with that, that's fine with me. However, you will miss out on quality women, or what you called "awesome", because of a limited view.