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So if I go out with a girl and I like them, I usually send them a email/text the next day saying something like...
I just wanted to write you a quick note to say that I very much enjoyed your company last night. The conversation was excellent and you are (insert specific compliment here). Thanks for being brave enough to meet me. Let's hang out again soon.
So there seems to be a two schools of thought.
First, (W. Anton - The Manual, What women want and..) seems to advocate for being direct, giving women compliments and being honest with your intentions. He describes being charming as making the woman feel attractive.
Second, there is the David DeAngelo method in which he teaches that telling a woman that you want her kills attraction. Thus he would probably frown on the above message.
What has been your experience? Who much do you give direct compliments? During or after the first date.
Hey mate
you've stumbled across one of the oldest arguments in the community.
The point however is to not find an answer, but to transcend the question in it's entirety. Direct versus indirect are dualities that most people are stuck in and as long as they are stuck there, they will never be truly great.
What I mean is to unplug, disconnect and stop reading other people's opinions on things. I've met most of the guys you read about and none of them are God - remember that. There is no reason their opinions should be more valuable than your own. Trust in your self.
Essentially, think of it like this: How do you feel? What do you think? Say it. That's it, that's all. Playing games and figuring out tactics and angles just means you think women are stupid and that they can't see through you. Who you are is always shining through. Remember that.
Good luck brother
Give. Love. Serve.
Mack
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