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Hey guys I haven't been active on the forum in a while, I have genuinely been too busy and have been having real life success with women. Now I don't claim to be some super master guru but this had lead to me the reflection that PUA does work and in the long run most guys will be better off if they apply themselves in the same manner as me. Despite my doubts and pitfalls along the way I can come back and honestly say I wouldn't change my journey.
However this has lead me to evaluate pick up as a system in general and to be honest I don't think it's the most effective way to have success with women. Yes there is a lot of missing pieces you find along the way but it would of been a hell of a lot easier if someone gave me those pieces 5 years ago rather than me having to trial and error through countless tactics and useless advice. I'll give you an example... if someone had told me all I had to do was travel and post some pictures to Facebook of me in some interesting locations rather than spend all my time and money on material objects. Well I would of been to a lot more places, I also didn't realise my friends were holding me back and how easy it was to make new friends. I made a lot of new friends through this forum believe it or not.
The other thing is for every good piece of advice out there, there is about 50 pointless and completely irrelevant over thoughts which will make you question your success. I was analysing very trivial things to the point women thought I was behaving very weirdly. When I finally ditched most of the tactics and just let natural conversation flow I started having success again.
I also find that there is far too many guys on here who are clearly failures with women (judging by their own posts) who somehow feel they are at a level to help other guys who are posting the exact same question they just asked! It's like the blind leading the blind across the busy road!
Anyway that's my two cents, my solution is an alternative system that is in no way associated with PUA, is completely free and easy to use. I guess I better start writing
I have used a lot of other forums but, like you, have been at this for awhile. When hindsight vision is 20 20, its always easy to reflect back, and say, if I had only known. Yes, pickup is not the most efficient system but, I have yet to find one. It leads to the old, knock and the door will answer. Seek and you will find. Volume approaches and follow through. It then plays into women have an abundance of opportunity to ride the cock carousel. Essentially, puas throw gasoline onto the fire of blowing up female entitlement, and expectation.
Very few men are good at pickup and the ones who are tend to be attacked by feminazis. Every man I have ever met good at pickup has been different, a rare breed, and someone who had intense sexual social equity from a very young age. To some extent, it was almost a detriment in much of their blood, and effects their entire life. Would I care to sit in JB situation right now or ever? No. I will continue to approach women I find attractive but, this lifestyle is not easy to maintain.
What is the alternative? If you expected to find the answer online, you are sadly mistaken, and even much of the pickup content is horrible. Its the blind leading the blind. Any time man someone is selling you something, you should really be sceptical.