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Long story short, wife and I are back together. Open marriage, things going well. We looked at buying another house, realtor is hot. I started working on her, had the benefit of forced contact. Got her to open up, told her about the open marriage, 2 or 3 weeks of emails and texts and land a date with her last Tuesday. She has free tickets to a show, we meet, we hit the concert, then grab a bite to eat. Lots of touching throughout the date the entire night with both of us initiating it. Conversation flows just as easy in person as it does via email, end the night with short open mouth kiss. This was at 1AM on school night. She is divorced, has high school age kids.
She's hot, mature, no drama, no games, cool to be around. She shows a lot of interest, but emails that she likes me and had a great time, but isn't sure that she could do more than what we did. Also says there are single guys who want to spend time with her and her time is limited. I reply back that's cool, I get that and if I were single I'd feel the same way. I'm happy to leave it at that. She calls 30 mins later to explain over phone, and I reassured her it was ok. 4 hours later she strikes up conversation via text.
Bottom line, she is still showing a lot of interest. She has tons of orbiters, told me about some. I've played laid back and am cool with nothing happening, but obviously since she's cool and hot, I'd like to bed her. Would rather not play tons of games, and am not really interested in another friend. I have plenty of those. Freeze out now feels like it makes me look like an immature jackass.....but continuing giving time and attention after her statement feels like walking right into friend zone. Curious to see what you all think. This one is 43, been around the block with men MANY times, seems relatively impervious to games. What got me a date in the first place was being real, nice, cool, and I think the idea of her fucking a married man who's wife knows about it and is cool with it intrigued her for a bit. Let's hear it......
I still think you go cold. Childish/immature or not, you've had the discussion and she knows you're interested. Balked at it... but she may still come around.
If she's as seasoned as you say, she's not going to be impressed by you continuing the chase with her.
What's to lose? Her friendship? You didn't want that anyway.
My 2 cents.