You fucked up.
Also everything you are doing the whole talking to each other on the phone till you fall asleep...seeing each other's parents...everything you've done has the biggest red flag that you're both in a relationship. Everything you both have done or do appear as a love struck couple. Have you both said that you love each other??? I'd be surprised if not, but theoretically speaking you shouldn't have.
She didn't want you to see others, but she doesn't want a relationship..she wants her cake and eat it too.
I think what this other player JackZero was saying is very useful, basically you should be a man again, you seem to just have laid all your cards out and now she knows all about you. You're not mysterious, you almost seem like an open book to her..quite the opposite of what you should have been and be.
Just relax and play it safe, be casual, but I don't know it's tricky since if you shut down every relationship thing she may feel weird, but look at what she is doing recently and mimic her, don't initiate things, just let her do that, don't be rude or aggressive...do it in a casual and passive manner...act like you're busy or you got this and that. I don't know if you weren't in a relationship should have NEVER brought her around your parents....and why did you meet her's? This isn't even SERIOUS....
I don't know you both are doing things and behaving like two individuals who aren't serious shouldn't be.
Good luck on this and just go back to casual dating with her if you even want anything with her. Since she's throwing all these mixed signals everywhere...sounds like she's confusing you and herself...along with everyone on this forum. She has emotional problems or just playing games to have you jump through hoops and look stupid. ALSO quit drinking and becoming a fool....if you socially drink, I get that, but don't get drunk. Be in control of your mind and wits so you know what's up. Not lecturing on it, just saying...get back in control of yourself, her, and your NON-RELATIONSHIP? I guess? Could have fooled me .... ROFL