Just wanted to add more advice to this while it's at the top of my mind.
After learning about the power of pre-selection and failing many times with my own methods, I've realized a few things about why I was successful, and why I haven't really been able to repeat it yet. Things are still going well with the bartender that I really want, and I have been working on regular club game lately instead of strip club game. But I still want to get to the point where I actually can build the attraction enough at a strip club that I don't need to isolate her by buying a lap dance, and get her so hot that she will do what she can to isolate me. I still have a ways to go, but I might have to go back to what I did that worked, now that I realize why it probably worked.
When I met Monique, she came up to me because she is one of the biggest hustlers there and goes and gets that money. She of course tells everyone how much she loves to fuck, etc, gets the guys horny and they choose her, even though she is like an 8 and there are 9's everywhere.
When she came up to me, I told her I was just there to see Christina. I told her how Christina gave me her number and I lost it and felt bad and I owe her a date since I promised I'd take her on one. Monique had a very high opinion of Christina. So now I am thinking a great strategy to try is to find an awesome stripper, then go back to the club looking for her, and tell the other girls that you are only interested in some girl that isn't there.
The reason I haven't fucked Monique again is because she thinks she is trying to decide between me and another guy she has been seeing longer. I asked her why she liked that guy, and she said he came to the club for 4 months looking for Monique. So now it makes sense. I told Monique that I was doing the same thing for Christina, so Monique asked for my number so she could hook Christina up with a guy that kept looking for her, since Monique likes a guy that did the same thing.
I remember during the lap dance, I got her to reach into my pants and grab me, and I know now that she doesn't do that, even with me. She must have been really really turned on at the time. Also, I remember telling her about the girl that I was dating online. That girl made $200,000/year and was fucking me and driving me around in a Jaguar, then told me we are taking a break because she got back with her ex. Boom, more pre-selection.
So in Monique's eyes, I was pre-selected by Christina and by a beautiful nurse with fake tits who was rich. These days, I never get anywhere with Monique, and I bet it's because when she asks me about my dating life and all my 'fish' as she calls them, I never tell her. I was thinking that's a good thing, but now I'm going to make sure she knows the details, with some exaggeration.
Same with the stripper who's pussy I was eating. I got a lap dance from her recently, and was expecting the same thing to happen, but she wouldn't do it again. She wouldn't let me near her neck either to do my thing to get her aroused. I was confused, but thinking back, I was telling her the same thing. She came up to me the first time, and asked "Who are you looking for?" I told her "Christina". So she went and asked the DJ for the schedule and told me Christina isn't working that night. Then I went back another time, and she came up to me and asked me who I was looking for. I said "Christina". So she went to the DJ and asked for the schedule and told me "Christina" isn't working tonight. I was really thankful that she looked it up for me, and told her since she was so cool that I would buy a lap dance from her. Then she got giddy, and then had me eat her pussy during the lap dance. So when I try this again on another girl, I'm going to pretend I'm really looking for a different girl. Then I'll 'give up' and 'settle' for my real target, like I did with Monique. It's kind of like the ultimate neg if you think about it, combined with pre-selection. Also, with this girl, I didn't see her for a while, and forgot to ask her about her animals and all the personal stuff. I just saw her, figured I was past that part, and went straight to dirty talk. It didn't work. Can't leave out the rapport.
So now I think a good real strategy is to tell strippers that you really like their friend, that you took to the VIP room, but that friend really likes you more and you are thinking you aren't sure you want to date her, but that you promised a date, so you should give her a chance, and tell your target about the last girl you dated that was driving you around in a Ferrari or something. I would even leave, and try to find a time when that target is there again and the friend is not. Then it seems like you failed to find the girl you are really looking for a 2nd time, then you are 'stuck' there getting know your real target better. Maybe your real target will earn a lap dance if you can afford it.
Might as well give the full update too so far. It's mostly me getting little bits of action but failing to hold the attraction and get an f-close. At the other strip club, the girl that said she was going to fuck me next time actually got pissed at me the next time for talking to another girl(that gave me a bj in the back). I should've avoided the bj actually and just stuck with that first girl. Then I'd at least have another notch on my wall. : )
I thought I was at the top of my game when they started fighting over me. The bj girl actually grabbed my phone and erased the first girls number and typed hers into my phone instead. Then the first girl kept texting me and then they got into a fight when I left, and the first girl texted me to gfy.The bj girl got fired for doing that kind of stuff, so I don't even consider it an accomplishment at all(she was a porn star too and I could pay her for sex, but won't). The first girl I met there hates me because of the bj girl. The bj girl is just a prostitute, and the 3rd girl I met there was grabbing me and making out with me, but then wasn't interested in me when I came back. I tried to game a 4th girl there and didn't get anywhere. I don't even go to that club anymore.
The first club is badass, but I just stop by twice a week, once when Monique is there, and once when the bartender is there. Monique is like my test dummy that I practice game on to see what gets her horny, and the bartender is the girl I really want that just dumped her boyfriend for me, but she relies on him for rides everywhere and a place to live, so I just see her once a week so we can have our tryst. We have more of a real relationship. On Monday, I emailed her some rap beats that I made and told her she better rap for me when I see her on Sunday.
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