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PostPosted: Fri Aug 16, 2013 2:41 am 
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Hi guys, I didn't call/ask her out this past valentine's day, and now she wouldn't answer phone call/reply texts. What to do?

So here's the details:

Background: I've been going out with this girl for a while. Got along great. We almost bed each other one night earlier this month: I escorted her back to her apt and she invited me up, but I got a business call and had to leave. 2 dinners after that. I asked her out last weekend and this past weekend, but she's really busy (for legitimate business reason as I know her boss) and had to decline.

Incident: So 4 days lapsed since I asked her out last time and it's Valentine's day here (we're from HK and the Chinese custom here has valentine's day in Aug). It was Tuesday, so I figured she might be busy working and didn't intend to ask her out.

I came back home late around 11pm and found:

1. She was posting pics on fb of her fastfood take-out dinner. Headline: "it's far better to eat takeout in the office than wasting money for valentine's". Posted 7pm.

Another post: It's valentine's, why am I still here by myself? Posted 11pm.

I did not call or msg.

Afterwards: 2 days later, I woke with the feeling something was not right, so I called her. No answer. Texted 20 mins later to propose a date. No reply.

Question: what to do now? Thanks a ton!


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 16, 2013 3:17 am 
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my feeling is to send a short text to show some sympathy and that's it. What do you guys think?


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 8:23 pm 
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You said you've been going out awhile...How long is awhile ?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2014 6:29 pm 
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If she's your girlfriend I don't really blame her.

She should be pissed... and you should have talked to her.

It's a dumb little day, sure. But girls like it.

Damage control - I'd say what you said here... that you fucked up and that in HK it's celebrated in August.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2014 11:56 am 
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Hi guys, I didn't call/ask her out this past valentine's day, and now she wouldn't answer phone call/reply texts. What to do?

So here's the details:

Background: I've been going out with this girl for a while. Got along great. We almost bed each other one night earlier this month: I escorted her back to her apt and she invited me up, but I got a business call and had to leave. 2 dinners after that. I asked her out last weekend and this past weekend, but she's really busy (for legitimate business reason as I know her boss) and had to decline.

Incident: So 4 days lapsed since I asked her out last time and it's Valentine's day here (we're from HK and the Chinese custom here has valentine's day in Aug). It was Tuesday, so I figured she might be busy working and didn't intend to ask her out.

I came back home late around 11pm and found:

1. She was posting pics on fb of her fastfood take-out dinner. Headline: "it's far better to eat takeout in the office than wasting money for valentine's". Posted 7pm.

Another post: It's valentine's, why am I still here by myself? Posted 11pm.

I did not call or msg.

Afterwards: 2 days later, I woke with the feeling something was not right, so I called her. No answer. Texted 20 mins later to propose a date. No reply.

Question: what to do now? Thanks a ton!
That sounds like a shitty excuse not to ask her out for Valentine's day. Thinking she might be busy working... sounds like you were looking for an excuse not to ask her out. But more importantly, you took the business call over her. No business call at 11pm at night would interrupt my 'business' with a girl. I'm surprised she even went out with you after that anyway.

This is all your own fault!


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PostPosted: Sat May 31, 2014 6:02 am 
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You always ask her out no matter what you think the answer is going to be

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 14, 2014 3:58 pm 
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Sneak into her office and celebrate a replacement v day if you can. For future ref.


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