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This number actually didn't convert.
The only thing that I could have done wrong was not have enough time to build a solid attraction/rapport. I only had a few minutes, and the conversation was sort of stale.
....I've made a ton of improvements in this area since this approach...
You know, I'm aching to k-close at school before the end of the school year.... Ultimately, that's a barrier that I need to push past.
I try not to keep track of pua gurus, mpuas, whatever you want to call them. I feel that it would be obfuscating the issue. I'd rather go out and take my own notes than watch somebody else in-field, etc. Its really a waste of time.
Although its cool to get some tips from a "professional," all you have to do to fix your approach is to really keep an eye open on what you're doing, what that makes her think. I used to read theory after theory, tactic after tactic until I realized that all I have to do is open my eyes up and look in-depth.
Don't even think about the number not converting. Once you go through so many (like me) it's the average. PJ also says about 10% of the numbers he gets convert to sex, and he is a "pro."
The only reason I keep track of them is because by mentioning a name, you can convey the style of pickup. It is obfuscating, but it helps you realize that there is a method for each person, since there are so many publicized PUAs.
As the rest of your stuff implies, it is all about field experience. Other people have written work that you can read from their experiences, but until you are out there doing your own thing, you won't find what works for you.
Yes K closing at school would be great. There is always 1,000,000 reasons not to do something, but they are fabricated by the mind. Once you learn to let your self-imposed restrains go, you can do anything.