The underlying cause of so much trauma of so many guys on here is they are not used to the female psyche and they think their lives are over just because a girl dumped them. I'm here just to tell them that women are replaceable and they deserve better. There's nothing negative about that.

More women attempt suicide but very rarely does one dies. It's simply for grabbing attention. On the other hand, when men attempt suicide, most of them die.

Of course, very few men are suicidal. The trauma though from being dumped is very real. Many of the guys on here with girl problems are in extreme pain and while some of them may not be suicidal, most at one point in their suffering would have had contemplated suicide.

HF may come across as an asshole (most alpha sound like one) on several occasions but he's got a big heart for his fellow men and he has a realistic respect for women.

I'm trying hard to resist the urge to post here since I'm +40 but, hell yeah, HF's advice is spot on. At least he isn't a nagging man-bitch.

alright homie, i may have come on too strong. I get your message, and i do respect the idea of not settling for anything less than the best. thought we were having a discussion from one strong minded individual to another about where we might find happiness and the like beyond this game. Thanks for being reasonable even tho i came off like a cunt lol.

Only the other day I read this article: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... d-him.html and thought to myself "if only I could've shown him solid game".

Something I want to share with the young guys just starting out, because they seem to ask the majority of the questions on here. If you are just starting out, your mindset will probably be needy, strictly monogamous and you will get obsessed with the first HB5 who shows you any attention. Hell, you'll probably end up being her boyfriend and wasting YEARS of your teens / 20's in a relationship with a plain jane who treats you like shit.

My motto for you is simple: Do not get into a serious exclusive "I love you" long-term relationship until your 25th birthday at the earliest. By LTR I mean more than a year exclusively dating or longer. Start fucking as many hot women as you can and the moment you start getting soppy "I just want her" feelings for a girl, soft next her immediately and downgrade her either to FWB/fuckbuddy or dump her if you can't handle the strong attachment feelz.

Remember this is a pickup forum. Not a love forum. Not a "how to get a girlfriend so I can just go back to being a lazy chode again" forum. Not a marriage forum. PICKUP. I wasted 8 years of my teens and 20's with 2 women. One girlfriend and a wife. They were HB6's at best and treated me like shit. Because i allowed myself to be treated like shit. And because i craved their attention, affection and validation.

I'll be 30 this year and I'm currently wading knee-deep in hotter poontang I ever could've imagined (too many women, too little time!), my music career is taking off and I'm just radiating masculine sexuality. Any man with a cock and balls is born to be like this naturally. I'm not special; you're not special, PUA coaches are not special. You can be a pimp if you choose to be. You don't learn how to be confident. You unlearn how to be unconfident.

So if you are under 25 in a long-term serious relationship and you're reading this, ask yourself are you REALLY in love with your girlfriend or are you just: 1) scared you won't find anyone better? 2) scared of being lonely? 3) loving the infrequent, boring sex? 4) scared of a change in your circumstances? 5) scared of her reaction if you dump her? 6) scared of what other people will think about your breakup? 7) scared you'll regret dumping her? 8] in denial about her questionable personality and looks? 9) happy to fap to porn when your girlfriend is in bed? 10) scared she'll find someone better?

If you said yes to one, many or all of the above, it's time to dump her or downgrade her. If you're unhappy in your relationship, do the poor girl a favour and stop leading her on. Dump her now and challenge yourself. Stop "settling down" and getting lazy. There'll be plenty of time for that when you're older. No guy in the world ever looks back on his life and says "Gee, i fucked far too many women when i was younger".

Stop waiting to be dumped before moving on. Be a man and take control of your life. You'll only be young once. Don't waste your youth taking shit from women just to get regular sex. Stop crying over girls. Stop wasting time moping around. Just fuck them and replace them if you're not happy. You're the fucking boss! Start acting like it and hotter women will want you.