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topics about character.....such as
1. you have a unique style of dressing...i like (usually only works when she actually dress differently)
2. i couldn't work here it seems like the customers are awful (if she's at work)
3. so are you really interested in this stuff or are you just here (if you meet her at a museum or zoo)
4. pick out nitpickiy things
5. compliments that lead to convos (ask her if that her real hair color' if so then compliment how it suits her,or see if she wears make up if not tell her how clear her skin is) for some reason girls hate being called beautiful all the time but LOVE those compliments.........BUT THESE ONLY WORK IF YOU HAVEN'T COMPLIMENTED HER TO MUCH)
just work with what you're giving, if she gives off any hints, go for it (without insulting her) even if you're wrong she'll correct you....
think of a conversation like a house...you can only build on it if you have a good foundation...so with that said stay away from small talk, unless your just a pro at it....the reason i say that is because small talk is often seen as boring, or what people with no social skills use........
another thing is don't be afraid to show emotions and body language, believe it or not but what we say is actually less important that what we do or look like...another meaning to "actions speak louder than words" bill Clinton address the nation about not cheating but his body language basically PROVED that he did.....
idk if that helped
Yea it were useful tips. I know body language says more the words but how do you build comfort via body language solely then.
The topics you were cool, but I was actually asking about night game and girls you just know for 3-4 minutes.
(that already have the attraction going on)