Hey so she LJBF'd me after I over invested in her, so I froze her out since I'd been a muppet and too keen....she then reinitiated contact texting me, I take time to reply usually like a few hours to not show over interest but now she's replying super quick (like at a similiar speed when she was really into me) and is asking questions, adding to the number of kisses at the end of the texts - all good signs right?

But then I know just a month ago she wasn't into me on that way but we were in close contact all the time messenging daily...I'm confused as to what she's doing is she trying to get 'back' to this old contact every day cos she wants to be close friends or has the freeze out and my 'make her work for me' aloofness actually working?
Do I ignore it and move on or slowly escalate?

PLEASE RESPOND RELATIVELY SOON GUYS SO I DON'T MISS OUT ON SOMETHING

Cheers amigos
Peace

T_A_M

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maybe she just wants the attention? just send her a winky face ' '

nothing more.

Haha thanks for the reply! I think she's still a bit attracted to me, so without trying to seem rude, I don't really see what the winky face is gonna achieve? :p

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Used right a winky face will come across as flirtatious just make sure it's appropriate. It sounds like you are doing all the right things already just trust your instincts and don't over invest in her, remember the 90/10 rule, she invests 90% you invest 10%.

Happy Hunting Tam!

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I have no idea, but it always works for me. I actually came up with a motto "when in doubt, winky face." Lmao

Thanks Damien, have continued to not really do much like stick to the 90/10 rule but now think it's probably not on realistically, she's not really looking for much (she's been single for a long time now) so I'm moving on possibly to try a couple of her close mates as they're both really nice (and models!! ) ...who knows this might make original HB jealous but I've never tried hitting on a target's best friend before lol?!



Hahahaha dude fair enough it works!! I'll use it soon but this time it just didn't seem right but I'll let you know how it goes when I use it :p thanks mate

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