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#1 - Things like this are why I always tell my GFs that their exes need to disappear. And since I do not care if it looks needy, beta, or whatever, it actually ends up being alpha, because I set the frame, and make my boundaries clear.
I am going to start running by the same rules. They have to go.
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#2 - On to your specific problem. I see two potential options here
- a) she was uncomfortable with you and the ex talking (she did not introduce you as the boyfriend, did she?) and wanted to get you out of the scene with the water thing. you acted the "alpha male" way, defusing her attempt, and that pissed her off
She introduced me to him as her new boyfriend, when I am the dude that she bitched to him about before they got together. She didn't tell him who I really was until their one on one chat later.
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- b) she was hoping you would get jealous with her talking for so long to her ex, trying to elicit an emotional reaction out of you. you did not do that, and she was mad. the water thing was just an excuse to pull the trigger.
More then likely, this chick openly gets off on pissing me off. It's a fun little game we have together, this however is crossing a line.
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if a) you might want to ask to yourself exactly what kind of vibe there is between your girlfriend and her ex. if b) you may need to provide some more validation and reassurance. are you still in game mode with her?
Last night I got so pissed I told her to send back my dog tags and that if she wanted them back she could earn them. That what she did was the kind of disrespectful that I am just not going to deal with. We are talking today and I am keeping my cool if only barely.