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Chief: there was a time about 2 years ago where I lost a girl that I claimed was my girlfriend, and you argued in chat that "she is NOT your girlfriend" because I was in an open relationship... There is no such thing as healthy jealousy or "cheating" in an open relationship that I know of. You are both allowed to fuck whom you please. I am guessing you are trying to take a LTR and turn it into a Multiple long-term relationship (MLTR).
The best way to go about these is to just be a pimp. You are not a loser for wanting multiple girls and having a primary. Don't let these guys argue that you are not winning by having an open relationship. That's usually the best bet for me.
lol, I remember your situation.
I didn't say "she is NOT your girlfriend" because you were in an open relationship. I said that because you were not in any sort of defined relationship at all because you two never said anything to each other about it.
When I was in an open relationship with this girl, it was agreed upon verbally, but now we've moved into an exclusive relationship. I used to feel more bothered by the fact that I'm sharing the same pool of the "boyfriend" title as the whipped desperate losers who are in relationships due to lack of choice, but now that I'm actually in love again none of that seems to matter anymore. Thanks, everyone.
As a side note, it feels pretty cool to have a bar cold approach turn into something so serious.