Forum rules


Relationship Subforum Rules

1. Posts about how to get a girlfriend will result in a ban.


2. Posts about your ex-girlfriend will result in a ban.

3. Any other posts not related to your current girlfriend will result in a ban.



Author Message
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 6:24 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Addict

Joined: Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:54 pm
Posts: 281
my take on it is that every chick is emotionally tied to her ex in some shape or form until she jumps on the next cock.

if your unable to bring her to a new and better place once shes riding you, she'll still remain emotionally attached to her ex, especially if, like Pokerslot says, hes moved on completely, ignored the fuck out of her, and has a new girl etc etc.

in other words if your less of a man than her ex was, its gonna be a rough ride, cuz chicks usually leave a relationship because they stop getting what they want/need.

if she got dumped, dont bother. she'll be fucked up for a good 2 years.

but if shes the one who broke it off, all you gotta do is what pokerslot said and your good.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 9:06 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot

Joined: Tue Apr 10, 2012 11:30 pm
Posts: 327
Location: Netherlands
Quote:
my take on it is that every chick is emotionally tied to her ex in some shape or form until she jumps on the next cock.

if your unable to bring her to a new and better place once shes riding you, she'll still remain emotionally attached to her ex, especially if, like Pokerslot says, hes moved on completely, ignored the fuck out of her, and has a new girl etc etc.

in other words if your less of a man than her ex was, its gonna be a rough ride, cuz chicks usually leave a relationship because they stop getting what they want/need.

if she got dumped, dont bother. she'll be fucked up for a good 2 years.

but if shes the one who broke it off, all you gotta do is what pokerslot said and your good.
Damn man your post is dead on! I also think you will be compared to her ex and if your less then him its pretty much game over very soon.

_________________
Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 9:28 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot
User avatar

Joined: Thu May 17, 2012 3:51 pm
Posts: 372
believe me.
she WANTS YOU to do something about it. Don't be a loser and do nothing. React.
She's your gf and if you do nothing she will think you are not protecting her and that you don't want her so much. It's somekind of a test, like some tricky questions they often ask.
Just show him who the alpha male his in front of her. now, you have to be careful about how to do it. it depends on the girl. sometimes violence is inadmissible and she will brake up with you, sometimes they like violence. even better if you get a bit hurt in the process. but violence is just one of many things you can do to put an end in the problem.
either way you have to show her that you are her Men. the one that gives her security, protection and confidence. just like animals in the wild where the male protects the female.

JuanAntonioB is right but EVEN if she was the one who broke it off it doesn't matter because you are certainly losing some points in your favour if you don't do anything.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 9:40 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot

Joined: Tue Apr 10, 2012 11:30 pm
Posts: 327
Location: Netherlands
Quote:
believe me.
she WANTS YOU to do something about it. Don't be a loser and do nothing. React.
She's your gf and if you do nothing she will think you are not protecting her and that you don't want her so much. It's somekind of a test, like some tricky questions they often ask.
Just show him who the alpha male his in front of her. now, you have to be careful about how to do it. it depends on the girl. sometimes violence is inadmissible and she will brake up with you, sometimes they like violence. even better if you get a bit hurt in the process. but violence is just one of many things you can do to put an end in the problem.
either way you have to show her that you are her Men. the one that gives her security, protection and confidence. just like animals in the wild where the male protects the female.

JuanAntonioB is right but EVEN if she was the one who broke it off it doesn't matter because you are certainly losing some points in your favour if you don't do anything.

This is one of the reasons guys get lost on the forum!

One says do not show jealousy and don't let it bother you and now you are saying do react to it. By reacting you are insecure because your afraid of losing her to the ex. You are the best she could ever get is the mentality you need to have but if she does not see it like that you got a problem and did not do your job well as a boyfriend.

I never had the experience with a crazy ex but i did have a girlfriend who had 500 guys posting how hot she looked on face-book and SPAM. I never talked to her about how it bothered me but looking back now i should off dumped her ass for disrespecting me like that.

_________________
Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:00 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Addict

Joined: Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:54 pm
Posts: 281
yes she wants security, protection, all those things.

there's a certain line of re-activeness that SHOULD be crossed when its called for.

it depends on the boundaries that you have laid down.

if your girl crosses them, you react.

the term react is subjective. you should rarely react physically or violently. its more verbal, laying down the law kind of thing.

theres a difference between a girl shit testing (which they do all the time), and a girl crossing boundaries. you gotta realize which is which, and act accordingly.

the times when you should react physically could be for instance, if your in a club, and some dude grabs your girls ass. you dont notice , but she comes and tells you. what should you do? be " non reactive?"

no, you go up to that motherfucker's face and do something about it. im not saying you should fight him, but I would let him know he should watch the fuck out about which girl's ass he grabs cuz he could get knocked the fuck out. something like that. NOTE: be sure to have backup and be ready to fight.

anyways, back to the OP. in this case i would say he has nothing to worry about. if the chick had to block the ex on FB and ignores his calls, id say she doesnt need much help in getting him out of her life. I woudl just laugh at it. if it became an issue i would do what he said he was gonna do, call him and tell him to fucking chill and move on.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:05 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot
User avatar

Joined: Thu May 17, 2012 3:51 pm
Posts: 372
There's a BIG difference between being a psycho control freak and a protecting lover.

And I agree that's why people get lost on the forum, because they don't known the difference, which sometimes is rather thin.

If my GF had a stalker I would deal with it ASAP and show who the boss is. If it's just random guys trying to hit on her I wouldn't even bother.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat May 19, 2012 9:36 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast
User avatar

Joined: Sun Jul 24, 2011 12:23 pm
Posts: 84
Website: http://www.puaterms.net
Location: Las Vegas
Quote:
if she got dumped, dont bother. she'll be fucked up for a good 2 years.

but if shes the one who broke it off, all you gotta do is what pokerslot said and your good.
Haha, funny, true, and thank you.
Quote:
believe me.
she WANTS YOU to do something about it. Don't be a loser and do nothing. React.
This is complete and udder bullshit. My responses are from EXPERIENCE, not guesses. I dumped my ex a long time ago, we started hooking up again, then one day she randomly had her new bf knock on my door and go all apeshit crazy on me, real aggressive. You know what happens if I react to a 6 foot 6 inch 280 pound gorilla? I get knocked the fuck out.

So I used my brain, I didn't react, ignored his threats etc. About 3 months later, they who up to the community pool, she lays on top of him and makes out with him because she KNOWS I'M THERE. Did I react? Hell no. I laughed it off and seriously don't give a fuck. All she did was prove to me that A) She wants my attention and B) She's a low life slut that doesn't deserve me. That event was the nail in her coffin to me, I'm done with it now.

Now, the next 3 weeks I had to put up with our mutual friends telling me how they're dealing with my ex crying and balling over how bad she just wants to get back with me. Ex starts commenting on all my YouTube shit, poking me on Facebook, etc.

Now, answer two questions and draw your own conclusion.

1) Did I react or not?
2) Does she want me back / could I get her back?

Respect that shit.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:40 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot
User avatar

Joined: Thu May 17, 2012 3:51 pm
Posts: 372
Quote:
Quote:
I didn't react, ignored his threats etc. About 3 months later, they who up to the community pool, she lays on top of him and makes out with him
nice brains you have.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:50 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot

Joined: Tue Apr 10, 2012 11:30 pm
Posts: 327
Location: Netherlands
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
I didn't react, ignored his threats etc. About 3 months later, they who up to the community pool, she lays on top of him and makes out with him
nice brains you have.
"Now, the next 3 weeks I had to put up with our mutual friends telling me how they're dealing with my ex crying and balling over how bad she just wants to get back with me. Ex starts commenting on all my YouTube shit, poking me on Facebook, etc. "

_________________
Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat May 19, 2012 12:39 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot
User avatar

Joined: Thu May 17, 2012 3:51 pm
Posts: 372
if you are ok with her fucking other man I supposed that works really well. imo that's disgusting. I prefer to avoid that from happening. but anyway I never felt threatened.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2012 2:21 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast
User avatar

Joined: Sun Jul 24, 2011 12:23 pm
Posts: 84
Website: http://www.puaterms.net
Location: Las Vegas
First of all, you guys might be the jealous type, but I'm not. I dumped her, remember? And you don't think I was fucking multiple other women? Paleeease, of course I was!

Second, if you didn't realize that she was ALREADY fucking him when he came to my door, then you're naive. I realized it, accepted it, and didn't give a fuck. Had I given a fuck, I NEVER would have seen her again.


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 26 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link