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I don't think a single one of you read the original post.... He asked how to get a girl to ask for YOUR number, not how to ask for HER number.
This is a really simple question to answer, don't forget this, because if you do, you will regret it a lot, trust me, I've been there!
Don't ever give a girl your number and expect her to call you! You need to get her number, or you will most likely never hear from her again. I had a girl tell me she would probably cry if she never saw me again and so I gave her my number because I didn't have my phone or a pen and paper. I never heard from her again and trust me when I say with certainty that I would have had her in my bed within 7 hours easy.
I read the first post, and that's exactly what we're talking about.
It's usually not productive to give her your number, and they will usually not ask for it. But then if there's some restriction or some safety consideration in her mind that prevents her from giving you hers, it can't hurt to voluntarily give her yours.
I picked up a stripper once this way. She called me.
Never say never.
Alot of these girls have given out there numbers before then gotten harassed constantly by AFC's, losers and other guys that don't have any other options. So they don't give it out, and that's part of the reason for the policy itself.
Around here, hot girls are a commodity to be traded and controlled. You know, like pretty cattle or something. Once a girl gets a reputation for being promiscuous, gaming customers, etc.. she's often black balled and prevented from getting a job at other establishments of this type. Whether it's true or not. I mean a lot of these poor, hot working girls are just looking for the first well off guy to come along and rescue them from their hum, drum working existence, like a prince in shining armor or something. A lot of posers out there.
And for most of these girls sex just isn't a problem (most are young anyway). They don't need to risk everything by looking for it sitting at a table on the inside.