Well basically the last time we spoke was a total mess. She crashed a party that I uninvited her to because I knew there would be drama: there was drama anyway cause she wouldn't stop blowing up my phone and eventually drove over. We argued in the front yard and she threatened to have some of her boys come lay a beating on me. I welcomed it, but it never happened.
It all started when she texted a friend of mine about a 3some (after we broke up). He then told told all my friends what she did, and then I was the last to find out. He thought she was a slut for it, they all did, and when I found out, you're damn right I did as well. I wasn't mad that she did something slutty, I was mad that she would go and do something so stupid within our mutual friends (mutual cause I introduced them to her). 3some through a text? Really? She chalks it up to me being sensitive and bitter about the break up and I just couldn't get over her, but I knew she was already seeing other dudes and honestly didn't care about that. She thinks because she's single she can do anything without repercussion, and that I manipulated all my friends into thinking negatively about her. And then she says I turned her own friends against her, which I didn't really have to try to do, they were all starting to hate her anyway. One of her friends reached out to me as a friend, and we hung out but nothing happened. I eventually hooked up with one of her friends, who is technically a mutual friend of my ex but they weren't really that close, they may have met twice.
I also said some mean things about her education, she went to a party school and worked a shitty part time job and her parents paid for all her vacations.. Apparently she took that personally and decided to write a long scroll about it, honestly I didn't really care. At the time I was unemployed and not going to school, so she decided to use that as leverage. She at least acknowledged that I have a degree now and a job, but I can understand her defending her credentials.
Bottom line, she thinks that I was bitter and didn't get over her. There's not really much I can say to disprove that, which is why me responding would seem like a waste, but what I was mad about, at the core, was that she would do something so stupid to one of my best friends at the time and expect there to be no judgment, and then when there was, it was all of the sudden all my fault. She thinks people passing judgment on her is me "claiming her for the rest of my life". Its really messy. _________________ The best PUA advice is also the best fighting advice.
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