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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2012 4:48 pm 
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So I'm seein this girl who was with a dickhead before me, she lost a good bit of her confidence because of him. We've been seeing each other a few months and it's all been goin good, except she is afraid to commit aka be my gf. I know this because she told me.

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We were bf gf in school years and years ago and have hooked up last year after years of no contact, we were 12 when we were bf gf in school and it ended cos she had to leave the school and go to another one. Nowadays wit us its like we are bf gf anyways, she texts says she misses me etc when we're not together. She said she wants to be exclusive a while ago, but not bf gf...?


Its been a while that we've been dating and we haven't had sex yet mainly due to logistics.


Anyways, today I texted her and asked her to ljbf, i could tell she wasn't happy with this.
I told her I don't see the point in being exclusive all we do is kiss, and that I don't wanna fall for someone who doesn't know what they want. I also said I was sexually frustrated cos I havent had sex in a while. She didn't address this particular one.

All she said was she was too scared to commit or say she's my gf because of the dickhead she was with before me.




Did I fuck up?

Did I do the right thing?

She has alot of guys chasing her, she's a HB8.5. She knows alot of girls are chasing me also.


What's my next step? Oviously I like this girl.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2012 5:46 pm 
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Speak English retard.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2012 6:36 pm 
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Why would u tell her ljbf over txt? Men do these kind of things in person.

If she's had past relationship issues, that's a red flag.

No sex = red flag.

Her not addressing the issue = red flag.

I don't know why the bf/gf or exclusivity conversation came up if you 2 haven't had sex. Unless you're in 8th grade?

What do you mean you haven't had sex because of logistics?

First thing you need to do is have sex with this girl. I guess your ljbf strategy was to force her to have sex with you, but that's not how it works. You need to seduce her.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2012 7:14 pm 
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Why would u tell her ljbf over txt? Men do these kind of things in person.

If she's had past relationship issues, that's a red flag.

No sex = red flag.

Her not addressing the issue = red flag.

I don't know why the bf/gf or exclusivity conversation came up if you 2 haven't had sex. Unless you're in 8th grade?

What do you mean you haven't had sex because of logistics?

First thing you need to do is have sex with this girl. I guess your ljbf strategy was to force her to have sex with you, but that's not how it works. You need to seduce her.
The ljbf was because I don't wanna date someone pointlessly with no goal. Then I found out about the dickhead and it put it into perspective.

Logistics...we live at home with our parents, I don't have a car.

Why is the red flag up for past relationship issues? Well I suppose that answers itself. But I've had the same issues but I've put them behind me.

What about the other red flags, can you elaborate?

Anyway we just talked and agreed to still see each other and gooooooooo slowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2012 7:50 pm 
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f* that. i would never pick up baggage like that. she needs to get over herself.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2012 8:10 pm 
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Anyway we just talked and agreed to still see each other and gooooooooo slowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.
No, dude, you need to fuck her. Soon. Otherwise she'll be the one sending you a ljbf txt.


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this sounds so tricky lol there must be a way of fuckin her - if it get's massively dissapointing why don't you try a night away somewhere, maybe even as a surprise then you should be certain of pussy?


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we were 12 when we were bf gf in school
This kid is like 15 years old. Your advice to him is useless.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 10:08 pm 
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we were 12 when we were bf gf in school
This kid is like 15 years old. Your advice to him is useless.
24 actually.

and yeah trip away sounds like a plan a-game, probably the best solution offered on this thread. WOOOP!


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 10:54 pm 
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STOP! so you have been with this girl for 12 years and haven't had sex with her yet? how did you go from 12 to 24? am i missing something?


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Richard you are an asshole, she clearly has some confidence issues due to the last Bf, he clearly fucked things up, is that a red flag? obviously you have no emotional baggage cause you still aint had a proper gf, but past relationship issues aint not flag. and still your go to methodology is "you best fuck her fast"
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I agree with you completely, except the "past relationship issues ain't no red flags". They could be red flags.


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