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I don't see being a PUA as a means to 'achieve' or 'succeed'. It's not like I flick a button and get into game-mode when I see a target, and my only goal being closing. It's just something I do every moment of the day and have incorporated into my being, whether the person I 'game' is an 18yo girl or 80yo man.
Seeing PUA merely as tools to effectively get girls into your bed is kind of narrowminded in my opinion. I know it sounds cheesy when I say it's a lifestyle but I sincerely believe that. Closing is just a by-product to me, as it as to anyone I see around me who's been practicing it for a while. This is way bigger than just girls.
I think that self-improvement is a huge piece of pick up. That includes inner game and lifestyle changes. Having the right mentality is important, but pick up IS all about the girls. There is no other purpose for learning game.
Again, self-improvement is a huge aspect that really improves your game, but that is not the end goal. It is all about closing, if you don't close you're not a PUA.