I've been dating my girlfriend for quite a while now. We're quite serious about each other. Whenever we meet.. there's a lot of cuddling etc. going on and I suppose she's quite comfortable with me. The kino is very good I could say. But with almost any physical contact, I get an erection. I think she almost noticed it the other day. I don't have sexual thoughts in my head at that time, it just happens to occur on it's own! I don't want her to feel awkward around me.

Please help.

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Women are plenty, time is not.

So her presence turns you on.... so what? I don't see the big deal here. But if you absolutely don't want to experience this - try jacking off a few minutes before seeing her.

Why is this a problem ? some guys have trouble getting it up lol!. Dont be so worried about it, obv just try n hide it if its causing that much of a problem.

Basically just shows your DTF 24/7 haha! jokes jokes

Yes but I don't want her to know this. We're still pretty young (teens) and I'm afraid she might find it creepy. Although she's usually very understanding and mature, this fear of her finding it creepy just takes my mind off of the current happenings and distracts me.

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Women are plenty, time is not.

Whenever you let fear govern your actions you are making a mistake. Fear of her finding you creepy because she arouses you? Fear of her learning you masturbate? You are currently wrestling with social conditioning, the idea that sexuality is shameful. What you need to understand is that these ideas have been perpetuated and ingrained in your culture by institutions with no regard for your actual well being, it's about controlling you and exploiting you.

You must find the strength and confidence within yourself to challenge these ideas and embrace your own way of looking at things, not only will this make you a happier less worried person but it's attractive in it's own right. If you allow your fear of loss to influence your decisions, you will end up with nothing, if you relax and think for yourself you may or may not maintain your relationship but you will be a stronger and happier person for the rest of your life.

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Take a look at your own signature, are you living in the moment with an abundance mentality? Or are you worrying about future while feeling scarcity?

This is a good thing dude. Bring her to your bed room and take action.

WHEN IN DOUBT WHIP IT OUT.

Speeds thing up and it will stop you from being a pussy.

As soon as I get a hard on I show the girl, it lets her know I'm feeling her, also, I usually neg more then most dudes.

Not a big deal, my gf keeps telling me her underwear are wet from when she is laying on my shoulder...

Stop being a pussy. Getting hard over a girl is perfectly natural, it isn't creepy and if she thinks it is well....She's probably a weirdo or just immature, in either case dump her.

I get hard just looking at pictures of my girlfriend and she loves it - she's a very sexual person and always wants to fuck.

Stop making assumptions.

Had the same thing with my last gf. Its actualy good. She liked it, I liked it.

Just roll with it. Dont show it off or anything (Unless of course the time is right).

But you shouldnt be ashamed. YOUR A MAN. It happens.

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Be happy she turns you on, let her grab it for a chance, show you're sexually confident. Or you could just duct tape it, RJ Burger style

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Optimistic?

If you're in High School I personally recommend this forum: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdispl ... 94ca4&f=16

Thanks for the suggestions guys. I feel most of you make a very valid point.


Lol. Well I am in highschool but my game is certainly higher than the one that is being talked about on that forum. Thanks for the suggestion in any case.

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Women are plenty, time is not.

This thread is evidence to the contrary. You need to be knocked down a couple notches. Ego is the greatest obstacle to your success. Meditate on that.

And btw
DJ Forums = legit

Ego? This thread is evidence to the contrary.

I'll check the forum out again to form a better opinion though

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Okay. I accept it. I was being stupid.

So somehow indirectly over text I told her of this reaction that she causes whenever there's some intimate physical touch going on. I used indirect words like "arouse" and "turn on" etc etc. Finally she goes
Bb...lah. What a ***in relief. Thanks guys.

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