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enigma_7 | PostPosted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 11:58 am | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sun Jun 21, 2009 7:54 pm Posts: 76 | I'm trying to have a few openers canned away that I could use at anytime. I think if Iknew I always had perhaps 3-4 default anytime openers I could call upon whenever I needed to it would really enhance my confidence as I would straightaway have something to say.
Do you guys have any ideas for some anytime openers ?
Personally one that has worked well for me in the past is Style's 'fluff' opener. I keep a small ball of fluff in my wallet and I'll go up to a girl and tell her she has some fluff in her hair in a cocky-funny way. I'll then have the small ball of fluff ready in my hand, act as though I'm taking it out of her hair and then show it to her then I just go from there.
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Exerio | PostPosted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 12:42 pm | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Wed Jun 10, 2009 4:39 pm Posts: 309 | One of the openers that works best for me is the "unknown to the city".
Me: Hey, I'm not very familiar with this city, just over for a visit. Do you know about a great ____?
"____" Leaves with what suits the situation best, for example a coffee shop, a pub/club, dinner place, store etc.
What you do here:
1) being very un-needy, you are just a normal guy asking for a place you want to visit.
2) Making a false time constraint ("Just over for a visit)
3) Making room for a conversation about the place you want to visit.
This is not my own material though, but it works pretty well:)
- Exerio
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Manda Chuva | PostPosted: Mon Jul 20, 2009 11:24 pm | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Addict | | Joined: Wed Mar 18, 2009 9:25 pm Posts: 206 | I call this the guess what opener
and then they will say what ooh u guessed it and u can reward them
or u can say u guessed the first part rite now try the second
actually i wanted to meet u ppl u guys seem different like me i could be wrong but wat the heck
Or u can stack anyway u want too _________________ Difficulties are things that show a person what they are.” Epictetus
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