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 Post subject: Internet Dating
PostPosted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 4:03 pm 
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Ok, I'm pretty new to the 'Game', one of my biggest problems is that I just choke conversationally when the pressure is on. Around my friends etc I'm a funny, pretty sarcastic guy but when it comes to women, especially ones I like, I choke and can't think of what to say!! I know from successes that I've had that the key is not to think...

Anyway, I thought I'd give Internet Dating a go to try and jump start the practice and build confidence. I've been using Speed Dating as well. The problem is that I am not getting anywhere with the Internet Dating... I must have contacted 40 girls and nothing but a couple of 'thanks but no thanks' replies.

Any suggestions about profile content, openers or general thoughts on Internet Dating would be appreciated. I know that there are guys out there who clean up on the Internet.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 12:53 am 
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Get off the internet!
Internet dating is bs man, that isnt game. You need to improve who you are as a person, not improve your typing skills on the net!

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 1:39 am 
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Hi Steve:

Okay Impact have a point. The game is played in the field. But sometimes is good to use internet as a tool when you want to contact new girls or you don't have the confidence to talk in the phone.

So my advice will be... Get the e-mail and chat with her in an instant messenger (Msn, ICQ or whatever) but try to build some rapport and get the phone, call and meet.

One mistake that many guys make during this is using the C&F attitude during an internet conversation. Playing C&F through internet is really hard because there is no body language nor voice tone , that are fundamental while making a joke or a C&F statement (I could say I don't care :wink: , And she might get that as a real statement. When I was saying that in a C&F way in a sarcastic or joking tone. Get the point ?) So try to avoid the C&F thing in online conversations, use them but try to make it clear, when you are making a joke or something like that (You could use Smile faces or anything but make it clear.)

In conclusion. Use Internet as a tool to get phone numbers, build rapport if you can.

Don't live only from internet, go out and practice if you want to become a good PUA.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 7:46 am 
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That is true what they say you need to get in teh feild an on the phone but here is what you do if i were you. You go out there and you do two things.

1. go out there and talk to as many chicks as you can and fail.....failing only makes you see how not important it is that you fail so when it does happen when you get going its no big deal.

2. don't see a girl's beauty when you talk to them...its a distraction. Its meant to intimidate you, Don't let it. That girl is just like any other girl, remember that


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 8:50 am 
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Cheers for the input. I was kind of looking for any good openers for Internet stuff but I found a good thread after posting this that has given me some ideas.

I appreciate the comments about getting out there, which is exactly what I'm doing, just I sit at work bored all day so figured that if I could pull chicks instead of play games that would be a good idea.

Any good openers for Internet still wanted...


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 7:14 pm 
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i suppose any general openers thats you would use live could be adjusted to work on the net, but what i like to do is find certain things they are interested in and tell a story about soemthing i did thats funny that is related to what they like. A short short story but a little something...i think you know what i mean


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 9:24 pm 
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Internet shit is lame...

Simple as that...

If you think that yer gonna get by using this information for the web....
Think again...

You need to practice what you read...

If you have a problem talking to HB's then work with old lady's and fat girls first...

The thing is to get them interested in you, with out you trying...

You need to build some balls ...

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i agree with custom though.....I always go out and do it...I prefer day-game myself over going to bars and clubs because i feel that day game really throws them off as opposed to night game. Granted they both work amazingly


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xfman I totally agree with what you have to say about building your rapport with women via the internet.

Interestingly enough I've never had a problem sealing a deal via the internet. but don't get me wrong I am not trying to honk my own horn.

Everyone knows that it is easier to pick up women when you demonstrate social status (especially platonic) relationships with the women you are at the club/bar with.

So when I am getting to know these girls via e-mail, my only angle is to get to know them better and build a basic relationship with them (to the point of going to the bar kinda thing)

Then go out with them, see what you can bring back heh. And the best part is that when you are going to get these other chicks, the girls you came with will be more attracted to do simply due to your Alpha Male appearance from getting women and the fact that you treat them so neutrally lol.

But that's just me and my thoughts :D

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i only have one thing to that. If you tell a girl on the internet to meet you in a bar/club do you say meet me there or Ill be down there with soem friends. because to me its sounds odd if you ask someone down there adn you have a few girls that you came with.


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good question brian,

the only women I would bring out to a bar/club would be women that already all knew each other. Then with them I go approach new women.

I wouldn't say, be going with a group of girls and then invite another woman from a different social circle.

that just gets weird :D

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 1:06 am 
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yeah bose thats what i was thinking. I mean i wasn't asking what to do i was just thinking thats weird to do that. There is a linear process i follow and that kinda messes things up, creates uncomfortable situations between who you came with and who your meeting


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i whole heartedly concur.

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 Post subject: Just do it
PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 4:12 am 
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Don't internet date. Looks on the internet can be very deceiving. I tried it out just for fun. The girl said she was thin and wasen't even close. The time I wasted on the chick, I could have picked up a whole bunch of other girls. It's a waste....


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