well first off, welcome to the forums..
you dont have to put 'READ' in your topics in order to get them read just so you know =)
quicksearch is your friend... use it well...
now on to your question n' stuff
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I met this girl and at first the spark and chemistry between us was amazing
mmhmm... (is that violens I hear tuning up in the background???)
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years passed and I didn't hear
oh wait wait... i know this song... it's on the tip of my tounge
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time went on and this girl then started talking to me on msn
I swear ive heard this song before... JIMMY.. you know I know this song, you know I know it
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I started to talk to her again. but this time I was ready for her...What i fucking love about her is that shes stunning to look at!
Man i know this song... wait, WAIT
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i can tell she wants me!
YES I remember now
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she is still means the fucking world to me!.... When i meet her it needs to be perfect, no fuck ups!
*choir angels sing*
ONEITIS
heh... sorry i coulnt resist...
dont take my teasing the wrong way but you have to call this what it is.
lets get this out of the way first,
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I dont want to get in her pants, this connection is not like that,
yes you do... stop it, accept it for what it is.. sure sure its more than just that... but just be honest... you want in her pants.. or you would just keep dating Miss Michigan and have this awsome connection with superfriend
You are gonna see this girl, and probably wet yourself your so worried about it...
Not to say that you cant get with this girl OK... dont get me wrong, i hope it goes well for you... But you have GOT to take this girl off the fucking mountain you have put her on...
If you dont.. you will fuck it up... and nothing we can say will change that...
So
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When i meet her it needs to be perfect, no fuck ups!
this line of thinking has GOT to go away if your ever gonna get over this.
be yourself... but accept the fact that NO ONE is perfect, you will be so worried about saying the perffect thing that you will miss the obvious
and give up the "lil mind games"
dont play games with this girl.. just be real... run some push pull, kino, esclate... do eye contact... do compliance testing... be fun, high energy, and cool... dont run openers on her and probably keep the routines to a minimum... MAYBE use the cube routine, if you can get some good attraction and report going FIRST.
lastly
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Fuck my uni life, fuck my exams, FUCK IT! This is what its all about!
this shit will get you killed... seriously.. follow this out and if it doesnt work out for you we are gonna be talking you off the f-ing bridge...
you are most important... not this girl.
OK... 10 years from now, your still gonna want that degree and what not..even if you do get with this girl.
so re-evaluate yourself... calm down, reframe...
oh and quicksearch oneitis... cus youve got it bad.
JMT,
Lucky