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should i make it look like im getting over her?
should i let her know im going out and meeting other girls now, finding dates... (via facebok statuses, pictures, casually mentioning it in convo)????.
In my opinion no, and no.
This is precisely what I'm talking about when I mention space. If there are gaps in your life she doesn't have the information to fill in, then so be it, let her use her imagination. You're not being cruel, you're just making it abundantly clear that you respect her wishes for space, and that you're man enough to deal with it. If you start telling her about dating, or meeting other people it sounds like you're attention seeking. She'll see through that in a second, believe me.
About getting in touch with her: try not to blink first. By that, I mean don't be the one to initiate contact. Let her make the effort. If she feels strongly enough about you, you won't be waiting long. That's the inherent fear you need to get a handle on: that by being away from you she'll somehow forget. It's a totally normal thing to feel; you just have to take the plunge and hope it works out.
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we even had sex on saturday. i basically told her straight out we may not see each other for a while and i wanted her and i wouldnt think any different of the situation.
I apologise if this is a little strong, but that's tantamount to coercion. You asked her permission, added a side order of subtle emotional blackmail, and gave her a get out clause. All for free. She's less inclined to respect someone who's asking for a mercy fuck. I'd avoid this if you're in the same position again. Good luck, Rain.