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PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 12:08 am 
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Hey I just went to a party last night and had a great time and was at the top of my game. I was talking to every one, never at a lost for words, flirting and teasing with all the girls at the party and them doing the same thing back. Just the fact I was touching people at all and the girls touching me back in flirty ways is new. I had more energy, was less of a stiff, was more playful and less of a jerk.

But the problem is I didn’t really get to that point until I had a good amount of beer in me, I didn’t get to the point where I didn’t remember the night, but I was definitely under the influence. I also know the girls I was flirting and teasing with the most and was doing the same thing back to me really didn’t drink, so I know it wasn't just that they were drunk.

Where it might be fun to be drunk 24/7 I want to find a way to be the way I was last night without being drunk. That night did show me that I have it inside of me and the fact that I know that now may help to bring it out, but I still need some help. I think it’s just a inner game problem and the beer help me to not care so much about what other people thought, but even then a lot of the stuff I did do that night would never even cross my mind to do.

So please what do you think my next step should be?

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PostPosted: Mon May 07, 2007 2:20 pm 
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A lot of peoples have this problem. Inner game is the only anser, become confidnet enough to play like you did without booze.

Btw is it anser or answer?

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Hey Smile4now,

Its answer :P, english language is really complicated, don't worry.

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Hey mang I can relate to this problem because heaps of my mates only like going out if they get themselves hammered.
One thing I have found though is that with the right state of mind you dont have to drink anything to have more fun than the drunken people by your side. I discovered this after many nights being the designated driver. :P
If you are old enough to hit clubs etc, i would recommend going out one night, not drinking at all, take a friend if you feel more comfortable and arrange your night in this order.
Firstly if your friend wants a drink to get their dutch courage up let them, then hit the dance floor and just go wild. If you get yourself having a good time and elevated on fun, positive mindset your more likely to be more confident and laid back.
From there just enjoy your night like you might be when drinking. Sarge if you feel the need but don't make it a necessity. Just have yourself a great time, dancing, chatting to people, watch your drunken friend get up to drunken mischief. The more fun you see you can have whilst sober the more confident and out going you will become.
Well thats just in my experience. :P
Either that or just cut down on the drink every time you go out. Have a few less every time. 1. you save money. 2. you get used to sarging with less dutch courage.

I hope I have given a few good points for you mang.

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just make sure they were laffing with you.

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Alas, I am one of Giacomo's friends that has in the past, felt the need to get blind drunk for the fun of it. But lately, thanks to some lovely conversations between him and I, I've found the fun in not drinking so much and having just as much fun.
Sometimes it is fun to just go out and get hammered, but all in moderation. And yes, a money saving scheme it also is.

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to go off on what Giacomo said.

yea i can relate to you. but the difference next time is try to get a buzz. not wasted.

or drink a water after every drink. that helps too.

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Try drinking less and less or slower and slower every time you go out to game. Soon you'll be only having one or two beers and gaming just like you were when you were drinking lots.


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I've seen cats that think they game better while drunk...they don't... Imho you are at the top of your game when stone cold sober...2 beer max


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 9:08 am 
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I dont drink at all now
NOTHING NADA
But I just want you guys to think of this
What alcohol does is slow down your nervous system

I got this from a website

"In the brain, alcohol affects our ability to process information:

It takes you longer to react to situations.
You have trouble exercising judgement.
You are not as well coordinated. "

So if you take longer to react to situations, therefore you react longer to her responses, IOI's, IOD's, Shit Tests, and so on

If you can't judge, therefore you CANT qualify, and according to MY game, you MUST qualify in one way or another, I dont care what method you follow, you QUALIFY, because qualify is the way she feels she has EARNED your attention and affection

Well if youre not coordinated... forget it... you know what happpens... you could dance but it wont be as good, you could kiss, but you wont as much passion as you could and so on

Now, I know (by reading, thing everyone should do) that the liver gets rid of the alcohol, but if a person drinks more than the liver can handle, then alcohol builds up in the body... thats when things get bad, so WATCH IT

If you been drinking your whole life, you know youre more resistent to alcohol than the average

Just keep a balance of how much you drink

either way as soon as you drink it will start affecting you

for some so little that it will seem nothing, for others it may have a bigger effect

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Try to arrive a little later than you normally would. That way everyone has had a chance to loosen up and have a few. Meanwhile, you are still fresh and have complete control of your faculties. From there, find a HB that is silly drunk and occaisionally look her way and just kind of laugh and shake your head. Be sure to give her eye contact but hang back. You are negging her without saying a word. If she motions you to come over so she can find out why you are laughing at her, you motion for her to come to you...Don't give up the superior stance and from there you can kind of tease her about her dancing or her slurring of words or whatever, ask her what she has had to drink, etc.

Alcohol is great but don't look at it the way everyone else does...That you need it to be loose and it makes your game better. More often then not, it doesn't. Look at it more like you're in a room full of people who are less inhibited than they normally would be and don't be afraid to put yourself out there a bit. Try drinking a red bull or some other energy drink to give you a little more pep on the dance floor and if you want to drink set yourself a limit. Say 3 beers over the course of the night AND DON'T GO OVER THAT AMOUNT and you should be fine unless you are a lightweight then adjust accordingly.

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