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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 12:32 am 
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ok say your having sex with a girl. would there be a routine to get a girl to orgasm more and easier?

when you start to slow down tell her to close her eyes and describe what an orgasm feels like?? tell her to go into great detail about it?. and since your having sex this shouldnt seem to weird.
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anyone have any ideas on how this would work? examples?!


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I have a somwhat tested idea-

When you get a woman really aroused you can anchor that feeling, what i use with a girl i know is "bahamas" whispered- you can anchor almost any feeling to a word so when you get her in an orgasm say somthing or touch her somwhere, or some combination then you could do this to make it happen again.


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David Shade... search for his material if you want this sort of stuff.

Personally I just like dirty talk and good sex for creating orgasms but to each their own.

As for anchoring you could do that... but why? Ever notice how when you strip a girl down and get ready to do you thing... she will get all excited from the anticipation? Granted this is after you've done well a couple times... but thats because orgasms and pleasure are already anchored... to the act of sex and more specifically to the act of having sex with you.


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I always anchor the moment just before orgasm by saying 'yeah baby' in a special way. I prefer touch anchors if possible (grab thigh or squeeze shoulder) but sometimes both hands are tied up :P

Orgasm is such a powerful state I think one may aswell make use of it.

Overall though I'm inclined to agree with Doctor in that the use of NLP isn't always necessary. David Shade's stuff is quality.


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I always anchor the moment just before orgasm by saying 'yeah baby' in a special way. I prefer touch anchors if possible (grab thigh or squeeze shoulder) but sometimes both hands are tied up :P

Orgasm is such a powerful state I think one may aswell make use of it.

Overall though I'm inclined to agree with Doctor in that the use of NLP isn't always necessary. David Shade's stuff is quality.
One would actually have to have sex with a woman in order to have the opportunity to do that.


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im just thinkin why not be able to get a girl to orgasm within 3 minutes of sex with nothing more than rythmic motion and talking to her. its not like i want to stop after 3 minutes or whatever only sayin that ability would be sick to have.

like a superhero.

but ill deff check out this david guy

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NLP combined with Sex, can be really fucking great :D

Especially if the woman has already been gradually adapted to it.
I mean, if you just launch into a full NLP pattern during sex, it might turn out weird.
But if you gradually go from starting out, maybe on phone etc. so she gets used to the association of your "sex-voice" or trance-voice. (I usually simply go slightly deeper in pitch.) with the orgasm, you can gradually transfer that to sex.

I've previously mentioned a technique I used with a woman (whom I'd been doing for a long time, so she automatically enters almost like a trance, taking my suggestions regardless, as long as I use the deeper pitch.)
Where I simply talked her through being fucked first, without doing anything, (just first describe what you'd do, then get her to tell you how that -would- feel, then you describe it back, when you do x (without doing it) how she can feel -whatever she gave you-.

and doing this, you can theoretically (and practically) give her an orgasm without stimulation at all... at all.
Purely Thinking about sex, especially if there is a person guiding her through the experience, so she doesn't have to step out of it, but can just enjoy the imagination, can give her an orgasm.


Using that knowledge, you can simply describe to her how she can feel you inside her, as you penetrate her. (get her really focused on the experience, and thus heightening the experience ;))

You can also, when you have had her tell you the experience in deeper detail, so you can apply all that :P, tell her that she'll feel the orgasm build from just feeling you glide slowly into her (You can give her an orgasm from being penetrated just once, if you want ;))
(This is best done if you've talked her through, or almost through it first, in my experience. ;))

I've told a girl that every penetration (really slow) was going to be like an entire orgasm, building up.
So when I, painstakingly slowly, penetrated her, it was, to her, as though it was an entire act, playing out in that one stroke.

If you then also, as I did, told her she would just almost come from the penetration, you can stack orgasms using this.


Think about it;
That means that 10, slow, penetrations from your side, is like her being fucked to the brink of orgasm 10 times.

And when she's told to come (by now she'll most likely be in sexual ecstasy) she'll be left having 10 orgasms in 1, which leave most women shaking for a long time :P



Another thing you can do is to watch her body-language, and get a feel for how she is right before she's about to come.
Then, at some other time, you pace her first, then lead her into that state.

:D

She'll be getting turned on like there's no tomorrow, out of something as simple as you, seemingly, just looking at her ;)



Those were the two I've used with most success, so far.
But seriously.
Look into David Shade,
Maybe stuff about hypnosis and NLP, and try it out.

You can, basically, lead anyone into any state by pacing/leading, if you do it powerfully enough.

and by building a sexual trance, you can, over time, teach her body to respond so powerfully to your suggestions that a simple "I want you to Come, Now!" can trigger an orgasm. (basically anchoring/pavlovian conditioning)

(or if you're a bastard, get yourself a tiny Bell, like Pavlov used on his dog, and ring it every time she comes. Then after a few dozen times, try ringing the bell in a completely normal situation. :D)




But seriously, experiment around with all the things you learn, and try most of them in sexual settings.
Worst case is you'll have to fuck her in a completely normal way.

best case, you get to turn her on like no man ever has, and give her orgasms that she'd only be able to dream about,

I've even done something as simple as this, after a long outdrawn sex-act; tell her "you're going to come harder and more intensely than you've ever come before" (if you say it in a deeper voice, close to her ear, and she doesn't object (why would she?) her unconscious will most likely accept the offer, and give her the most intense orgasm she's ever had....)

Can't hurt to try, right ;)



Cheers.


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It would be nice if we could get Hypnotica in on this thread. This is kinda his specialty.

Or you could just look for some of his stuff.

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I have jsut started out with NLP and have been trying something where I kiss her neck everytime she has an orgasm, now anytime I kiss her neck she goes wild. I hope to work on it to the point of her having orgasms with one kiss.

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