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PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 8:11 am 
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I'm trying to figure out how you bring all those very different ideas together to create this belief structure you have.
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I choose the lens in which I see the world through based on what is useful for my intentions, and that's just the lens I chose based on how much it makes sense as potential truth in terms of how I want to live my life.
I submit to the fact that I cannot possibly know everything. It is also highly possible that I may never know the absolute truth about the things I'm interested in.

There is, however, an alternative to knowing "absolute truth."

Reality is what you make it. I choose to construct my reality in terms of what I want out of life. As my intentions change, so will my sense of reality, and in turn I will grow wiser and more mature from these processes of change.

Currently I want to have nothing to do with monogamy and everything to do with multiple FWBs. Therefore I will hone in on pieces of the puzzle that fit that particular reality. The more evidence I find for my desired perspective of "truth," the stronger my frame of reality becomes.

I think I got the whole "monogamy was created by beta males" theory from both David Deangelo and Gunwitch.


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sounds absolutely reasonable to me Chief. As you pointed out (and a statement that I loved) is you adapt, learn, and grow as time goes on. Monogamy is something you have to be ready for. It is something you grow to want; not everyone wants a "serious relationship" at a time in their life when things arn't supposed to be serious.

Enjoy the benefits of life, one of which is women. However, choosing one women over many women is the preference of the doer, and I don't think either should be criticized.

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