couple things..
you want a strong, somewhat loud voice. you dont want to shout (seems you realize that). Think "booming" or "powerful." I know Im in the voice zone when Ive had a couple drinks and my voice magically drops down an octave into this deep, almost rumbling baritone (im a tenor). I can seduce woman with the sound of my voice alone when I am talking like this.
If its really loud and you are talking to one girl, heres a little clue that unfortunately a lot of people dont get. Instead of shouting in her face, or god forbid, shouting directly into her ear (i fucking HATE people who do this to me), just lean in real, real close, with your lips almost touching her ear, and talk in a deep voice at normal volume. The lower frequency will drown out high pitch background noise, and you really dont need any more volume if you are that close in, she will hear you perfectly. You want to avoid "pecking" tho as Mystery calls it, so just keep your face up close to hers as much as you can, act natural about it, its a great way to kino as well.
As for negs... be careful! First off, negging girls who are only a 5 or 6 (fairly average) can go wrong quickly, as they dont have nearly the same kind of confidence as 9s and 10s. Its gotta be done playfully with them more than ever, and you really cant overdo it.
The other thing about negs, is that they are subtly negative compliments. They are NOT direct put-downs. Reading the neg threads on this forum seems like most guys just dont understand this difference, even tho there is always more than one senior member harping about it and trying to remind them. If you flat out put-down a girl, its gotta be done in a real joking manner and you have to make an immediate recovery, or you WILL come off as a jerk and probably hurt her feelings as well. We want to take her down a notch gently, not kick her in the stomach.
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