Hey man and welcome! =) I'll spend some time here and try to dissect everything I can to help you out.
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me: o ok then
Weak. If she can't make it let her know you aren't free all the time. Take charge. She owes you.
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me: (i know i fucked up by saying this ) u know what, i'll give this to you for free when we go out.
Uhhh, yeah u did but we all make mistakes. U tried to bribe her to go out with you. Would a high value man do that? No.
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:hey,sorry to bother you. i just wanted to go out with you coz i think u'r cool and interesting. im not pushing myself on you or somethn. ur really fun to be with that's why i asked u out.
Going to be honest, before I even finished reading this I knew she wouldn't reply back to your text. First off, sorry to bother you? The hell. Why are you apologizing? For existing? You also just gave a reason to why you bribed her, not only bringing back your mistake, but made it seem like it was wrong (even though it is). The whole message you sent showed her she is of higher value than you. Then you apologized...again. Sorry to say, but just straight up AFC.
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what should i do now? i know i fucked up and i learned my lesson. any tips? i dnt know if this is the right place to ask that im sorry if i was wrong.
So many tips to tell you. Read up on some PUA material like Mystery's Method, some Sean Messenger, David DeAngelo, Neil Strauss, Juggler's conversation jujitsu, and anything else that you can find on this forum.
In general, don't get stuck with thinking about one girl and be an alpha male. Lead with courage/confidence and remember the goal in life: to have fun.
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and one more question, can i sarge while im working?
You can sarge anytime. It is preferred that you never really stop talking to anyone you see. Old, ugly, young, pretty, doesn't matter. Get experience talking to others. The PUA life doesn't just end cuz you left the club. Of course, you don't want to try to seduce everyone you meet...