I want you to be honest when I ask these questions
When you fool around with her, do you show her that you want it badly?
As in, let me describe it for you (and yes you can imagine these in your head perverts)
The two of you are kissing, maybe grabbing a bit, and then when you go for the clothes, damn she stops you, you try to freeze her out, but it doesn't work, you try again, but it doesn't work
If this is how it happens pay attention to this, it will change your way of thinking
1. You get to the bedroom/living room/couch/ watever place where sexual things can happen
2. You DONT get close to her, even if she rolls with it, this will later FOR SURE lead to complications (it's better to take it by steps), instead you give her space
3. Enough space for enough time 'till she does either one of these two things, calls you over to seat near by her, or starts to call you with her body languaje (i.e. repeated eye contact, moves just a lil bit closer to you and so on)
Number 2 and 3 are the keys
If you execute these two steps correctly then the process will be a lot smoother cause she will feel she asked for it, you could even give yourself a false constraint (i.e. we shouldn't do this...)
Repeat steps 2 to 3 + False Constraint 'till she literally is moaning for it, then say something like "You want me inside you? Say you want me inside you", she usually will follow, if she doesn't, she doesnt want u bad enough
Does this clear things up for you more?
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