Hi Guys

I K Closed this HB 7 Hippiestyle goodie, and she is like a dream, and I got a date a week there after.
We meet up, and everything works like a charm, and I am slowly building confidence between us.
Then we get to the bed, and I Encounter the LMR, but thats quickly overcome with the help of some smooth negging, massaging and kissing. There she was, lying wanton on the bed, and I... I couldn´t get anything downthere to do as I wanted it to. Man we tried everything but the thing was Dead. Finally I had to give up, and admit to myself that this minor setback had to be overcome the next morning when we woke up.

Come next day, and we lye on the bed, and Finally I feel like I am up to the task.

BUT! Every single time our panties came off, my erection would magically disappear! I managed to get it up long enough for me to try a single position,´but as soon as we changed position well lil´ Shade wouldnt play no more.

Guys I really need a piece of advice to overcome this first (and second) time anxiety. any help is welcome.

Shade

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New on the Path

Hey Buddy

This has happend to most of us at some point in time (if is hasn't happend to you it will do one day). I would say I have a high sex drive the wind has to blow the wrong way and I get a rock on, however I have had an occasion where I couldn't rise to the occasion and I had a ex page 3 model in bed with me & it was the first time we were getting giggy and all I could do was extend the amount of foreplay (Kissing,Oral Sex, Toys and fingering) she loved it and I got a second chance to show her what I got.
My advise to you is if this is a serious problem then seek advise from your GP as it could be a basic problem that can be fixed like diet, stress or lack of sleep or even excessive boozing. A thing to look into are Zinc losenges you can get them from you local health food store or failing that ask the doctor for that blue pill it always dose the trick

Hope that helps

Hot Chocolate

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Thanks. Very useful info right there;)

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New on the Path

I have read that sometimes that problem is produced by anxiety and a reaction of being nervous. You can attack the problem by being calmed and many other exercises to control yourself in those moments.

Anyway , tell us how things work next time

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I'm no pro at this, but do know 3 things:
Nevosity, Being drunk and Nicotine is usually the answer.
If you cant make it after another try i'd sugest a visit to te pipi doc^^

How ever I wouldn't worry, in the worst senario you'll just need to use viagra.

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Come see conquer, or some1 else will

I ALWAYS USE VIAGRA THE FIRST TIME I SLEEP WITH A GIRL. IT GIVES ME A HUGE ERECTION AND PLENTY OF CONFIDENCE ON OUR NEXT ENCOUNTER. I ORDERED SOME WITHOUT PRESCRIPTION ONLINE THROUGH A "CANADIAN" RX. SAVE THE COST OF THE DOCTOR.

aahahahahah!

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

Haha, I was waiting for a sales pitch at the end like 'Order yours now from Viagra.com for only $29.99 and you get another box ABSOLUTELY FREE'.

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- Difference

i've had this problem sometimes. these days i only f-close ONS's. if i think it's gonna be a keeper, i focus mainly on gettin em ramped up, but don't actually have intercourse. this is a DHV in my opinion, cuz it shows ur not hungry, desperate or impatient. It also tends to alleviate the performance pressure factor....something that often contributes to these problems.

i can spend litteraly a coupla hours playing with a chic without actually drilling hur and i've never had one that hasn't loved it. it's like a push/pull thing, bring em up, and then let em down. when it comes time to drill, the experience can be profound. My experience again and again is that chix luv a guy that doesn't drill at the first opportunity.

as hot chocy pointed out, there is lots u can do withing actually drilling. any good drilling contractor should be able to satisfy a chick without actually fucking hur (not that i'm an expert at this.....yet) David shades masterful lover is a good text (tho his emphasis on hypnosis may put some off).

the viagra option is also a good one, for the first time anyway, tho they are expensive and have to be taken b4hand, so ya may blow ya dough if she don't end up putting out

let us know how u go

good luck
DM