ok last tuesday i see this girl at krogers i kinda know just from going to certain parties around the university and she says hi and just small talk but before i leave she asks where i work no biggie , but tonight she shows up with a guy and she has never been in my store before untill tonight , i was wearing a ring on my left hand just for looks and she noticed, then she tells me the guy is just a friend , then she leaves her number on the counter ? how should i go about this , is she just wanting to hang out like the guy thats with her or should i go for it

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Slow Motion

Man go for it... you have nothing to lose.... after that post the results

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PAQUITAO

well i texted her like 2 days later and instead of asking her to the movies i was just like so when are we going to see lady in the water , and i guess i was to confident cuz she was like are you asking me or are you telling me, so i dont know i fucked up i think i was to direct

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Slow Motion

It's just the process of learning,,, don't bother

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PAQUITAO

yeah have no regrets, plenty of fish in the sea

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-Elegance

Next time a gilr says : are you asking me or telling me you reply

im taking your already out streched hand

Dont ask me to explain it ..it works thats all i kmnow

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I am to be the next best thing in south africa

Always start from low pressure "dates", tell her to join you in some activity that you have to do anyways, for example, buying something for yourself.
My philosophy is if she gave you her phone number is for something, always assume that you are IN, that mentality will show in your actions.
And always be prepared for things like that she said to you, she never can find you off guard.

Ice