Wow, some of the most lying posts I've ever read. Dude, you have to spend some money. Guys who say they don't are lying. True, if you are the smokin' hot swagger dude that every girl wants then maybe you don't have to spend money, but for 90% of the rest of us, you'll have to spend money. I had to learn this the hard way because I bought into the myth that chicks were free and I lost many of them before getting them to my bed. Here's what I do and maybe this is a template that you can use.
I meet the girl at the mall for coffee- $5. If things are going well and it's on, then I bounce her to a bar for a drink- $20. If the girl is a good sport I will play the five question game, which she will lose (they lose 99% of the time), and she will pay for the drinks.
Second meet-up, usually a drink and a light snack on me. $25....If things are going well you can bounce her back to your motel or apartment.
Third meet-up. There are different options. I usually meet her downtown. There are many free things to do. There are art galleries, museums, horse carriage rides for $10 (women love that one). This is the third date so I know she will be coming home with me, or I with her. I rarely go to the fourth date before going to a seduction location. Because I know this is the date that matters the most I will usually buy her dinner, or if it's later I will take her to a nicer lounge with good drinks, good service, classy people....that kind of thing. This date will usually be $50. This usually leads to sex. I have found that the typical girl will cost around 50-150 dollars all the way to sex, that's using the 4-10 hour rule.
Look, my friend, don't fall for this fee stuff and "What? You should be getting laid for free, and if you aren't then there is something wrong." I've been a pua for thirteen years. I've read many books and talked to many pua's online. As I said before there are 10% of pua's who don't have to do much, but most of us do have to do something. No biggie, we get laid too. Also, if you have to brag about your exploits then maybe you aren't doing this because you love women. Maybe you have some kind of inferiority with other men and you are trying to impress them and get them to like you. I don't know. It's just and observation. Anyway, happy tail chasing. A lot of hot chicks out there. Good luck.
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