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Too many negative emotions for her to come back right now. Too many Debbie Downer talks over text. There's no reason for anyone to ever enter a black cloud of negative emotion, which is what you've created. "Let's get counseling" is not an attractive offer.
When you're trying to re-attract a woman, you speak your piece and move on to fun.
When you went over to her house, this is how you should've handled it, like a man:
"I fucked up. The split really made me recognize how important you are to me. It was a wake up call. I'm sorry, babe. And I'm giving you the power, right now, to take me back or not. But if you do, I don't want to dwell on the negativity, I just want to put this behind us and get back to having fun, because we're really good at that."
And then you leave. You don't argue with her, you don't debate her. You don't raise the emotional temperature and you sure as fuck don't write novels via text, strung out over a week.
You spoke your mind. Now get back to being the fun, chill guy she fell for. Text happy things, sexual things, funny things. Spark some kind of emotion other than the self-created black cloud.
That’s the thing I didn’t write novels via text, that was her lol. I guess the reason why I haven’t I don’t the last part is because I didn’t think she’d be receptive.