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 Post subject: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Thu Oct 05, 2017 11:08 pm 
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So I've recently started again on Tinder but having some trouble thinking of a decent opener. I've searched for some help here and on google but didn't really come up with anything solid.

Anyone have some tips? Don't want to overthink it, but also don't want to open with "hey, how are you?". Thanks


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Sat Oct 07, 2017 8:20 am 
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I can give you one:

"Hi ...Tinder says "XXXX name" is a good girl, true ?

it works 95% of the time

Remember to put in her name, which makes it more personal.


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Sat Oct 07, 2017 4:35 pm 
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Go outside.


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Sun Oct 08, 2017 12:51 pm 
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NaturalDec wrote:
Go outside.

co-signed

Do this and you will find there are WOMEN out there in the wild. Some of them may be down for a chat. Some of them may be looking for a guy just like you to come into their lives at that very moment.


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Sun Oct 08, 2017 6:43 pm 
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NaturalDec wrote:
Go outside.


There's no reason not to use Tinder, so it's a pointless comment. I'd just ask them how their weekend was/is/will be and build from there. Unless they have something in their bio you want to mention, then I'd use that.


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Tue Oct 10, 2017 7:14 pm 
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I do go outside but I don't live in an overly populated area. So don't come across many women I'm intersted in on a daily basis. Tinder is an additional option to meet more women


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2017 8:57 pm 
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Still overthinking this opener malarky on Tider and it's starting to get frustrating. Why do I find it so hard to get a convo going online???


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:27 pm 
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There's bound to be a web page full of Tinder openers, pick something that suits your style.


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:58 pm 
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Curtis72 wrote:
There's bound to be a web page full of Tinder openers, pick something that suits your style.


Think all the online stuff is my problem tbh. Too much different material. Think I'll just have to go for something and see if it works, if not, try something else.

Messed things up in the past and bound to do the same again in the future so not too sure why I'm worried about it.

It's possible that I've allowed too much time to pass now as well though.


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Sat Oct 14, 2017 11:21 am 
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Such a waste of time, too many texts and then you meet some bird that is 15kgs heavier than her photo.

I love it when i'm gaming a chick and she asks if i'm on Tinder and I reply with "I don't need Tinder" with a big cheeky smile.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 14, 2017 9:14 pm 
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Danatron1987 wrote:
I reply with "I don't need Tinder" with a big cheeky smile.

Boom :D


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Thu Nov 02, 2017 12:50 am 
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Read somewhere that sending a GIF as am opener increases the likelyhood of a reply by 30%. Not really working as much as I hoped, but I have had some success. However, they respond with a GIF of their own and I'm basically back to square one.

Struggling to be direct and flirt in the text but getting better. Will keep at it to see where it goes.

With the ones who don't respond to the GIF, I'm thinking of sending something mentioning the article as some sort of tease. Anyone think this would work or have another idea that I could use? Won't be sending another message if they don't respond to a second. Thanks


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Thu Nov 02, 2017 12:56 am 
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How do your conversations go in person?


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Thu Nov 02, 2017 9:15 am 
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neo87 wrote:
How do your conversations go in person?


Pretty much the same as they go on Tinder tbh. Struggle to keep them flowing smoothly and spike an intrest. Trying to improve on that as well. Don't want to have an online persona that doesn't match mine irl.

Have another thread on improving those here: post1003082.html#p1003082


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder Opener
PostPosted: Thu Nov 02, 2017 10:08 am 
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"match! you must be interested in me sooo much.."

just avoid "hi" and write something original, its not too hard.

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