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PostPosted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 5:00 pm 
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I met this woman (((nearly perfect))) one night out and she asked me out. after I initiated the first message, we found connection based on international experiences,adhd, and crazy events despite the fact that she is 13 years older than me... This isn't a usual thing for me, where I'm into older women; she also looks amazing for her age... like she's in her early 30's (she's 41) I'm 28yrs... she's also expressed how much she likes me and has elaborated on the many reasons...She is very well connected with international producers and clubs (thievery corporation being one of them)... while I have VIP black cards into night clubs and connections in many cities, one bouncer jokingly said "is she with you?"(he said it with a smile and a wink) he really meant are you with her.....

It's been a lot for how short I've known her... That is, the conversations we've had (emotional, personal, flirtatious) She has literally blown up my phone for two-three weeks strait...I literally told her "listen I don't have time to call or text anyone else because you contact me so much... you win" she was initially asking me to date her.... I'm also in a awful point in my life. I told her that I'm in transition with some things but not in the katelyn jenner sense and it's not realistic for me to date right now....Unlike her I'm self-made... and while I've lost a lot, I've accomplished more than her....It's not that i'm so superficial or intimidated by a beautiful, smart, independent woman.... I'm just not in a good position in my life to have a relationship.....This later turned into a pep talk before sex...... I was having a bad day; she started saying "you realize I really like you... you don't have to be closed off"... She's invited me to travel with her among other things (several times, all expenses paid).... she actually drove out of her way to pick me up to come over to her house...I jokingly said to her "isn't this how horror movies start? a 28yr inside a 41yr apartment across from a police station; security system is activated; can't get out" lol

I'm noticing that the attraction is dying down via text and due to her perceptions about me when we last met.... Also I said some stupid shit because I was trying to not come across as insecure about where I am in my life... Basically in one day, I may have killed it.......

she keeps bringing up topics of dating, relationships and friends with benefits.... she keeps changing how she she see's us.... She also has some inconsistencies in what she says which makes me think, she's not telling the truth or she's playing me

unfortunately now she knows I like her (3weeks on)... She's even said it to which I've responded "yeah you're alright"

I'm now wondering: am I fucking it up with my insecurities? is she playing me?.... I just don't feel like I can trust her yet...

I'm not sure how to move forward with this... I don't have time for this connection but I find myself falling for her now... and I'm saying cocky stupid shit because I'm overcompensating to try to try to get the upper hand....


I figured i should stop talking to her for a couple days at least....


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 5:28 pm 
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If you are showing her that you are insecure then you are messing up. Women tend to like guys that are secure.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 6:03 pm 
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I think it was more the feeling that I projected to her


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