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 Post subject: Daygame, now texting.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 24, 2017 3:24 am 
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Hey guys,

Daygamed this russian esl girl briefly the other week on the street. Tried to do instadate and prolong the convo as i find that's way better, less flaky #'s. She was heading off to work so we exchanged numbers. Texted a tiny bit back and forth and she seemed to be quite receptive asking back questions/responding same day so that was good.

I asked her: "What's your schedule look like?"
Her: I'm supposed to be off wed-thurs and sometimes fri, but not this week - what about you"
Me: Wed/fri evenings are good for me. are you a beer or wine type of girl?"
Her: (2 days later) "for me mornings usually are more real...on friday i go to sleep early and on weds i have class until 830. i prefer whiskey but im fine with beer"

Now I'm just curious to hear your guys thoughts who do daygame here. I've personally haven't been on many morning/afternoon dates in general, very little. I was thinking of just saying "lets grab drink at xyz place after your class on weds" - if she says no do we just meet her on a morning time for coffee/tea? Any thoughts overall about the date and how to proceed with her"?

We don't know each other well so i'd rather this date be over a drink, hop to another venue, escalate etc versus a situation in the morning where I don't have much experience in. Some help/thoughts?

PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2017 4:35 pm 
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I was thinking of just saying "lets grab drink at xyz place after your class on weds"

Right on man my instincts say the same.

PostPosted: Mon Oct 02, 2017 12:08 am 
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snowbinabox wrote:
I was thinking of just saying "lets grab drink at xyz place after your class on weds"

This is always the way to go.

We don't know each other well

That's what the entire purpose of the date is for. She's in the same boat as you.

so i'd rather this date be over a drink, hop to another venue

I know the "venue hop" is common advice in PUA Land on a first date to simulate as if it's been several dates (IE, increasing the chance of sex) but it's not a modern technique, IMHO. I advise against it unless the venue is back to your place or hers. Working women are going to start running out of steam in the evening. Do you want them at full energy at your place, or at Bob's Beer Hut?

Show up on the date, look good, be honest to the point of shocking playfulness (this, more than anything completely disarms women-see Hanky Moody in Californication on Netflix), and gauge how the flow is going. for me, it's usually about 45 minutes to the mental "peak", and that's when I tell a woman I'm walking her to her car. Often they'll say "already?" And I'll be like "yep". then go for the kiss outside the restaurant and invite her back.

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