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When she told me that , I said ok do what you want , listen to your emotions , but I don't want to continue like that . Tomorrow we are gonna have a discussion about us .
What should I do ? I do like this girl , losing her wouldn't a big thing but I would like to keep seeing her when we come back home
Edit : I told her I don't give a fuck about this guy and wanted her to be honest with him
Thanks
Please don't "have a discussion about us". There is no "you". Talking is what fucks these situations up. Know why? Because she herself told you it's not serious with the guy. But by having these pressuring conversations,
you yourself make it serious. You make her believe it's serious. On many occasions a woman will tend to follow a man's lead. How you feel about a certain subject will to a degree influence how she feels about it.
Also why would you tell her to be honest with him? It's her life, her guy and her decision. Let her handle it however she sees fit.
Her boyfriend or whatever he is should be of no concern to you. At all.
Anyway, listen to her actions, not her words.
When she decided to kiss you she still had a guy, but didn't care.
She then felt uncomfortable, still didn't care much, and went forward.
Then you talked, and that made her want to back off. Yet she still went even further.
Her actions are clear. Her desires are also clear.
OP, you're in a situation where literally all you have to do is not talk yourself out of a sure thing.