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Specifically night game. .
I'm not necessarily looking for a script to copy, but my interactions all fall flat.
I try to remember things like cold reads and teases but nothing seems to get the girls interested enough to stick around.
I know actual 'routines' seem very outdated now, but do people still have a kind of structure? Maybe even a 'pattern' whereby it's like, open, make comment on environement, make observation on the girls clothes wor whatever, tell some sort of story(?) and then find out about the girl etc?
Most of my interactions seem to be like
Open (hey guys, how's it going? Having fun yet?)
-----the girl will likely just nod as if to say 'yes'
Then some sort of cold read. Nothing tends to usually really 'pop out' in the moment and if not, I might go with something canned like ''You guys look like trouble. I think she's the bad one and you're the good one'' or whatever
-----Usually not much of a reaction from the girl.
Then it's basically, 'what's your name?', 'what are your plans tonight'? etc, but typically it's still 'one-word-answers on their part, and now i'm at a loss and either they walk away or I do.
So i'd love to hear some thoughts on 'structure' and maybe even a few examples of the early stages of a few interactions from your night game convos to see if I can get a few 'a'ha' moments!
You're routine here will come off very DLV if the girl doesn't have a instant attraction to you.
With that being said. Here's a typical scenario for me (It sounds like you are in a social gathering , judging by the two set you are conveying)
Me: Hey you guys seem interesting ,what's your story?
Them: Oh we are just out bla bla bla
Them: You?
Me: I am here to have an adventure as well as meet interesting people
Them: bla bla bla
Me; Introduce yourself almost as a interrupt - let out your hand for the hand shake - I'm Chase by the way and you guy's are?
Them: I'm Sarah
Them: I'm Tiffany
Me: Oh weird you don't look like a Sarah...
Sarah: What really?
Me: Yeah you look like an Ashley
Sarah: Laughs- what the hell?
Me: It's ok you aren't one of those Sarah's that smiles every time someone whispers your name are you?
ME: Hah, I see Tiffany over here is grinning I think she knows the truth (REngaging the 2nd person always crucial)
Tiffany: Laughs and says no she isn't
Me: Well you definitely look like a Tiffany. I say that cause you got the hair of a Tiffany...
Tiffany: What do you mean?
Me: Goes into a DHV story about some girl named Tiffany
Them: ( Now interested start asking me questions) So what do you for work?
Me: I actually have my own business
Them: Oh what's that?
Me: I actually manage robotic chiefs into peoples homes to cook for people that can't cook. It's a risky process because the technology is so new in America people are not aware of what these robots can actually do.
Them: (Either they bought the story or realize I am fucking around) - demonstrates humor they'll try to ask again what I really do or ask more about whatever bullshit I fed them)
Me: I actually am (tell them my real job in a manner that conveys amazingness)
As you can see I can keep interacting with these two females and use playful banner. This isn't a interview this me showing I am a confident attractive male who regularly talks to everyone. II don't focus on their looks at all <<< unless it's negging them or having fun.
After about 10 minutes there's enough attraction built I either suggest we move elsewhere or I bounce to another group I already opened and reconnect with them later. The important thing to remember is you are here to have fun and you need to engage both people or one will cock block you and get bored. Sometimes I'll isolate my target or isolate the other to make the other jealous , but I often introduce them to another group I met to show my social dominance and to entertain the one who isn't my target.
So the take away: First, Do not focus on their looks unless you're negging them down for a DHV and lowering their value , but again you don't want to come up and just neg you need to interact a bit first.
Second, have a fun interaction this isn't a interview it's you going out and having fun you don't need to be serious
Third, make sure all people are engaged or at least occupied with someone or you will get cock blocked.
Fourth - always introduce yourself after some simple conversation ( They will remember your name, if you remember theres great if not who the fuck cares)