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PostPosted: Sat Aug 19, 2017 10:02 pm 
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She was heavily resistant, while being really compliant to me at the same time, if that makes any sense. :? Got a couple of semi-kisses on the lips out of her though. I walked with her quite a bit (more like chased her down..we'll just go with "plowing" Lol) while she was trying to walk away from me and calling up her friends to pick her up. She also laid in the street a couple of times. As i tried to get her up, i was telling her that she was going to get arrested by the cops if she didn't get up from laying in the street. She ended up hopping into a vehicle to get home. I'm not entirely sure if she knew that guy who was driving or not, or if he was an Uber or Lyft driver. I would've tried to pull her back to my new crib by calling an Uber of my own before she did..but unfortunately i lost my phone at some point last night as well, so i wasn't able to execute that maneuver. Due to blacking out from drinking. There's a huge block of time that i couldn't remember earlier on in the night, a coupe hours before i approached that HB8.7 Drunk Blonde Chick. :( This is why heavy drinking isn't meant for me.


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This post is creepy, and sad.

Never, ever game women who are this drunk. Act like a man.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 20, 2017 1:00 pm 
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Dude what are you talking about? Most girls are either buzzed or drunk at this time of night on the weekend anyway. And if you happen to pick up a drunk chick off of the street and take her home, then so what..who cares? It's not like it hasn't been done before.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 20, 2017 4:25 pm 
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yea, probably lot of guys would try :) but I want girls who do not have boyfriends/husbands, especially when one of them is a friend, not sure if I can still call him friend, he is not interested in me, practically does not talk with me. When we meet, most of the time I talk to his girlfriend.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 20, 2017 11:22 pm 
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ManInTheMiddle wrote:
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yea, probably lot of guys would try :) but I want girls who do not have boyfriends/husbands, especially when one of them is a friend, not sure if I can still call him friend, he is not interested in me, practically does not talk with me. When we meet, most of the time I talk to his girlfriend.


Well i got news for you. You are limiting yourself substantially. Most women have some guy that they are seeing on some level..whether it be a boyfriend, husband, off & on fling, a guy that she's dating, a guy friend that she's known for years, an ex-boyfriend, etc. You can't just wait until you meet a girl that's single to go after her..i mean you can, but you may be waiting for a while indeed.

It's usually the single girls that tend to have their bitch shields up, and the girls who have boyfriends & husbands tend to be more receptive and flirty if you've noticed. I think this is because they are comforted by the fact that they already have a man at home, that gives them a sense of security. So if their behavior is somehow interpreted by guys as being flirty..they can just save face and flip the script on you by saying to you "I'm sorry, i have a boyfriend" or "I'm married". That way, they can make you feel guilty about flirting with them..even though they were clearly flirting with you as well. As for single chicks..since they have no security backup (ie a man waiting for them back at home)..for their own personal safety reasons, they become much more defensive (than women that already have a man) in an attempt to weed out all guys except for the one guy that she feels certain that he is the safe choice for her.

Of course these are all tests that women will throw at us..whether they are single or not. I was just explaining women's reasonings behind why they do this. The point is..it doesn't matter whether they are single or not, they all will shit test you regardless. Whether the woman is single, married, or has a boyfriend..it doesn't matter, she will still test you anyway. That's why i don't care if a woman is married, has a boyfriend, or is single..because i know that i will be tested by the girl nomatter what her situation is. So you have to get over that limitation that you should only flirt with single women. Trust me bro..women who have a boyfriend or are married will still give up the pussy to you, if you show them that you are unfazed and non-reactive to their tests..again..single or not, it doesn't matter. Go after the girl you want, single or not. But if she is your boy's girl, then that is the one exception. Don't go after your boy's girl. That would be breaking the "Bro Code" law. And that is sacrilegious.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 21, 2017 1:24 am 
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Dude what are you talking about? Most girls are either buzzed or drunk at this time of night on the weekend anyway. And if you happen to pick up a drunk chick off of the street and take her home, then so what..who cares? It's not like it hasn't been done before.


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You had to help her up off the street. You had people coming up to you, asking if "everything was okay".

That's pathetic and creepy behavior.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 27, 2017 8:33 pm 
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So you have to get over that limitation that you should only flirt with single women.


oh, maybe you misunderstood :) I like to flirt, also the part of testing how she flirts when has boyfriend :) I want her to be as bitchy as possible :)

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Trust me bro..women who have a boyfriend or are married will still give up the pussy to you, if you show them that you are unfazed and non-reactive to their tests..again..single or not, it doesn't matter

yea, I understand that.

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Go after the girl you want, single or not.

yea, I do. I just do not want occupied girl :)

this weekend I did not aproach, I was in my parents village, and I still am. I kind of want back to city because here I practically cannot find new girls.

I could talk to my woman cousin who is surprisingly super hot, like HB9 to at least practice communication skills. I do not even feel relaxed in talking with her. We almost did not meet in our life, she did not even recognize me year ago when we met after long time, maybe 10 or more years.

There are bit more reasons why I did not talk, but probably its bit offtopic, because I am not picking up my cousin anyway.

Want back to the city, but my parents want me to stay in village for holidays. Not sure when I will go back, but something like in few days.

Oh btw when browsing in dating site, I sometimes see some woman not smiling or smiling carefully. And I think they look less cool and easier to get. Or not necesarilly, maybe they are angry.

I had a friend who said me to smile more, and now somehow I think that I look more cool in photos when I smile more. Why I did not smile earlier - I did not want to show how happy I am, because I did not feel happy - my life sucks when I have little friends and I suck with girls. And also I thought not smiling add coolness and I want to be cool as these:
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On the other hand now I like smiling - it kind of shows if some people want me to be unhappy, by smiling I say fuck off, I am happy, you will not make me unhappy by insulting me and maybe that makes me look more cool.

And now I see I still have some photos where I did not smile in dating sites, maybe I should throw them out.

And also I start to think that I look more cool than those girls who have careful smile. Of course some girls who have no photos in dating sites, are still strong girls - "girls with the balls" and I have no idea how to "outcool" them :)


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 03, 2017 3:41 pm 
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I am lazy. Today all day thinking that I should go approach and not going. I find something else to do or read.

Yesterday and one day before yesterday I was at festival. Also thinking should say hi to somebody, but I did not.

Only I had a chat with seller when was buying a fried potatoes. I said to her - can I buy half of it? Because I already had bought fried bread. She chatted with me, and also one nice girl heard this chat and smiled at me :)

Today its raining. And I am thinking about going to mall to say hi.

Maybe motivation is killed constantly by negative sides of girls. Few days ago I have read an article how woman divorsed with man and man had to leave the house to her and her daugher. Man had earn new money again for house. That sucks.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 03, 2017 6:17 pm 
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ok, so went to mall and said hi to 3 woman. they did not say back, but last one maybe at least noticed.

actually hard for them to say hi back because they are not ready, they are not expecting me to say hi and once I say, they pass me. So often they should turn back at me to say hi.

I remembered what motivates me - when I was in festival, saw lot of hot girls. And one was dancing while walking, that looked especially cool. And I think I would like to be in shape so that I could dance with her. Lot of guys would be jellous. Maybe they would want to beat me because of this, which is not good. But first need to reach that state that I can dance with girls, and guys wanting to beat me would be another problem to solve then :D


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 16, 2017 6:48 pm 
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Hi,

Last weekend did not do anything, besides usual online dating sites because was sick.

This saturday went to festival with 2 moms and hers childs.

While going to festival, wanted to say hi to passing by girls, had one opportunity, but did not say, was too hard probably.

I need some preparation to say hi, pass few girls without saying but trying to say, and then later start saying. It was too short time to do so.

Then we walked in the festival. And after that one woman drove me home, she lives few kilometers away from me. Also we had to walk to her car maybe 1-2 km from the festival.

She is beautiful, (those moms are the same who recently was drinking at my flat) and I do not feel too relaxed in talking with her, so at least its a practice. Trying to find out what to talk is a bit of challenge but its good that she also finds. I am not sure what we will talk later after discussing the certain topics. Its already repeating topics - like how for me is it going with girls.
I asked how is it going at work for her but I expect its nothing new.

And also it makes me bit stressed that she drives me home for free. I did not do anything good to her but she is doing good to me. And there are buses going, its not that late. Its not the first time she drives me home. I am thinking I should buy her a beer at least.

Would be good to go say hi tomorrow to random girls.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 17, 2017 12:46 pm 
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oh, damn it, feeling so lazy to go out and say hi to girls.

And its rainy outside.

Feeling like wanting to play some computer game, like Mafia. That were fun times.

Meh. Thats why not improving, having little motivation. :(


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 18, 2017 4:55 am 
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yesterday was good day :) after I said I was lazy, trying to force myself to say hi, I was browsing dating sites.

And started to talk to one girl who looked interesting to me, the one which I might have chances of more than meeting.

I have talked to her earlier in those sites, but was no success, so long period was when I was not talking to her.

But this time, I saw she deleted account and recreated. And I started talking about it. She did not want to tell why.
But during date - she said its because she wants to clean other guys who are aproaching her on dating site.

The challange has been because the weather was not good, and we agreed to meet at shopping mall. I thought we will go to cafe and I was not sure if it will be easy to talk.

But once we met, she said she does not like to go to coffee, cool I thought. But then we were walking in a mall, which is not very great, if I would meet some people I know, I am not confortable showing people I walk with girl.

But it went very well, from the first minutes I saw it is easy to talk with her. She could talk about anything.

One only problem is that her ass is bit too fat and that reduces her hotness. But she is fuckable definitely.

I made probably a mistake by being so honest - I said to her that I am afraid of infidelity. We talked about this topic so I automatically said this.

I asked will we meet again? she said she wants more powerful and self confident man than she is. But she also says that she is not sure about me yet, she proably wants to have few meets again to know me better.

Also she said that sex to me looked like most important thing. I have no idea - should I make her look that sex is not important? One guy told me that I should talk about sex with girls and they also like it ,etc.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 23, 2017 10:10 am 
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Ok, it is sunny saturday 18 celcius, for an autumn - nice. And again I am feeling lazy to meet girls, as usual. Wtf. Why my laziness does not go out.

Will need to force myself to say hi. Will see if I manage to force myself.

I want to become better with girls. By doing nothing I will not become better. So I have to force myself!


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 23, 2017 2:42 pm 
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forced myself to go out and said hi to 3 girls. Did not get reply.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 24, 2017 2:54 am 
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ManInTheMiddle wrote:
forced myself to go out and said hi to 3 girls. Did not get reply.

What is your sticking point?

I'm asking you this because at some point..just approaching girls and just being satisfied with that will no longer be enough. I know that you said that you have been pushing yourself to approach..but you still have to take the next step..and the next step..and the next step.


I've been reading your most resent posts in this thread, and you're just kinda dabbling around. There's not really any specific purpose, direction, or a sense of urgency to your game in your field reports. You're just kinda doing the same things over and over, and being satisfied with that. Your time is precious, and you should treat every day or night that you go out to game, as such. And another thing is..you're not approaching nearly enough of the amount of girls that you should be approaching, if you want to get good at cold approach pickup. You will have to push yourself past your comfort zones a little bit more every time you go out, if you want to start getting those results with girls that has been eluding you thus far.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 24, 2017 3:23 pm 
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Today said hi to 4 woman. No response. One of them was very hot like HB 8-10.

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What is your sticking point?

I am not sure I understand a question. Does it mean - what is my goal?

if so my goal is to get confortable at saying hi, and maybe getting positive response also. So that would be easy for me to do. So that I would not need to mentaly prepare for that big thing.

Yea, I need next step. But I do not feel like I completed first step. So next step looks impossible.


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And another thing is..you're not approaching nearly enough of the amount of girls that you should be approaching, if you want to get good at cold approach pickup.


It takes lot of time. It took like 2 hours for me to find good situations to say hi to 4 woman.

Maybe it is not enough but it is better than nothing hopefully :)

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There's not really any specific purpose, direction, or a sense of urgency to your game in your field reports

yea, that is true. I do not rush. Maybe its too hard for me. Maybe I would need a real friend who would kick me in the ass if I do not aproach or smth :D

I think once I get confortable with current situation, then I will go out a bit of comfort zone. But currently it is still hard to say hi loudly enough to get a response. I feel if I say loudly, and girl notices, she will think that I am stupid or so. Thats why it is hard to force myself.

Also other people will think I am stupid ,because if saying louder - more people will hear. THey will think - oh that douchebag is trying to get a grill, haha, he is not worth her. Something like this.


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