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Escobar
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 Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 3:05 pm Post subject: Persuasiveness |
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Hi, i'm new to the forum thanks to Neils book.
My biggest concern is that i am very shy. Hope to overcome this and recover some of the lost time with wemen.  |
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Starbuck
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 11:34 pm Post subject: Re: Persuasiveness |
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| Escobar wrote: | Hi, i'm new to the forum thanks to Neils book.
My biggest concern is that i am very shy. Hope to overcome this and recover some of the lost time with wemen. |
You're shy? I hope this doesn't come as a shock, but I'm gonna tell it to you straight.
That's a cop out..
You got a case of fear bro. Fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of being seen as less than you are..
Tell me, what if I told you that this fear is a self fulfilling prophecy?
That to a woman your shyness and fear, is failure.. Failure to perform your duty as a man.
Women will have no respect for you, until you overcome this.
A good way to start overcoming this is to start telling every attractive woman you see that you think she's attractive and you'd like to have coffee with her. 
Then watch her melt in your presence or after you make your exit because she was shy and lacked the guts to accept your offer..
You have the power, you just need to assert it. And stop expecting her to do it for you. |
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Slick85
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| the first time I went out to sarge with my PUA stuff I was practically shaking because I was so nervous... now a month later I approached a 4 set by myself on the street and got them to invite me and my buddy to a bar with them, its nerveracking at first but once you start to force yourself to do it and see success, you realize that women actually want to be attracted and have a fun guy like you around |
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