Could a pattern such as the Rose pattern be used to create attraction with your girlfriend who is losing interest?
The Rose Pattern:
"The basic theory of this pattern is to use it as a method to take the
woman into a deep trance (she will actually assist you – isn’t that
great?!?!) and put your picture in her place where she loves someone
and then lock it in as absolutely true. Now, this type of pattern will
create a real obsession and will lock in her feelings for you. The one
problem is that it really shouldn’t be used in most contexts unless you
are really sure that this is a keeper. So, use of this pattern is very
very dangerous. Please use caution because you just might have created
an obsessive person. This basically creates a strong compulsion via
submodality shifts and locks in that change. My suggestion is to use
this on your girlfriend or wife.
The setup for this pattern is to engage the woman in conversation. I
will assume, for the purposes of this pattern, that you are able to get
her into fluff talk. During the fluff talk, develop rapport, and ask
about how sometimes you have a down day and feel bad. Then tell her you learned this great visualization exercise in a relaxation book. Now,
women love talking about and doing anything related to self-help and
improving themselves. Ask her if you could show her this exercise that
will allow her to feel really great at any time (most woman will agree
to this – if she doesn't, well... you're out of luck... and would you
want her anyway???).
(Note: First, have her close her eyes and set it up as a visualization
exercise to help her feel good... absolutely wonderful, at any time she
You know, I learned this great visualization exercise that really helps
you pick yourself up when you aren’t feeling that great. It really has
helped me just perk myself up during the day and just make me feel
wonderful. Would you like me to show it to you, so that you too can do
this and feel absolutely wonderful? It will only take a minute or two
and really will bless you with the things it can do for you.
Her: Oh yes. I would love that. Yada Yada Yada.
Okay. I would love to share this with you and really contribute to your
happiness [notice the set-up for reciprocity]. I invite you to
visualize a mental screen much like a movie screen, in front of you. As
you see this mental screen, allow yourself to see your favorite flower.
And, as you see this flower, allow the full sensory rich detail of the
flower to be on the mental screen. See it in vivid color, each detail
of the flower springing forth. Now, if I were to ask you which type of
flower you are seeing, what would you say was the type of the flower?
(good way to learn her favorite flower)
Her: Roses (tulips, carnations, etc.)
Doesn’t it FEEL WONDERFUL to see the rose in such beautiful detail? As
you see that flower, see the beautiful color of the rose. Allow the
rich texture of it to become alive. While you see this color, hear the
rustle of the petals as you see the wind blow slightly against the
petal. And, reach out and allow the smell to become stronger, richer,
and oh so beautiful. You can notice that it makes you FEEL SO RELAXED
Now, as you look at this beautiful rose... if you were to visualize a
picture of a family member you love dearly, like say your child,
parent, or someone special, where would it be on the mental screen.
Allow yourself to notice the location of where that picture was (notice
presupp. here). What would really make that rose wonderful, would be to
place that rose in the same location as where you saw the picture of
the family member. As you now see the picture of the rose in that
special place, let each petal of the rose represent some aspect of a
goal, dream, or wish you want to have in your life. Allow YOUR
UNCONSCIOUS mind to place those goals, dreams, and wishes in the
flower. As you do this, see me in that picture smiling as you hand me
that rose to hold for you. Allowing you to FEEL WONDERFUL at the
knowledge that you can ask for the rose at any moment and I will hand
it to you and making you FEEL SO WONDERFUL. Now as you feel these feelings, see that picture becoming more clear,
more focused. The picture is full of rich texture, reach threedimensional
detail. Allow the smell to grow, smell the sweet scent of
the flower. Allow the picture to grow larger, with each breath, it
grows larger. And as you see it grow, the picture comes closer to
you…become more clear. Moving closer to you. See the color becoming
more vivid, more detailed. And, it becomes more sharp, and becomes more
and more like a movie... with movement.
Now, allow YOUR MINE to take this flower within yourself. Sometimes,
the conscious mind gets in the way of your growth. Allow YOUR
UNCONCIOUS mind to find that special place within you. That special
place where you hold everything to be absolutely true. You know where
that special place is, and as you feel and sense that special place,
allow the picture of me holding that flower to GO DEEP INSIDE within
that special place and lock in there. As that picture of me holding the
flower locks in, hear the clanging sound similar to the slamming of a
gate. You know that the picture is now locked into your place of
Now, it might surprise you how your unconscious mind will allow this
picture of me holding the flower to pop up during your days to remind
you of these wonderful feelings and allow you to FEEL SO FABULOUS. And,
during your sleep, your unconcious mind will allow this to become a
dream….helping you to FEEL SO GOOD.
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It said it can create true obsession and should be used on your LTR or wife. But I just wanted to know whether it will work if she is losing interest.