cecilio87
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 Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 9:17 am Post subject: Opinion Opener...Could use some pointers from anyone |
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My favorite opener is the opinion opener. I mean because its simple you walk over to a girl or group and just ask them for an opinion. put a time constraint on it so they don't feel obligated or like you are going to bore them for an hour or 2 or 3... Plus by just asking for an opinion its not comming off as you're hitting on them or wanting anything BUT the opinion. in this stage use body language, make eye contact with the ones who seem more into it, and just work with it. After you finish you could say something like well hey thanks for the advice, but i have to get back to my friends. if you were good and interested them, then they will say no don't leave yet or whatever. If u were ok then they might say ok well have fun with ur friends. This is when u leave, but come back to them later and say hey mind if i cut in? Sorry there was no one else interesting in this place.
Me: *walk up to random group of girls* hey girls i was wondering if i can get a girl's opinion on something?
Girls: what is it?
Me: ok well i have this really really good friend from high school that was going out with a girl for probably 2 years. They broke up during the summer after their senior year because they both knew that long distance relationships almost always fail after the 1st semester. So in other words they were being realistic.
*they might interrupt and say did they really break up because of that?* just look at one of her friends and say is she always this demanding Smile*
get back to the story and say well yeah like i was saying my friend went to UT in austin, while his girlfriend got accepted into NYU. OK now my friend has a g/f in college, but still loves his ex. DO YOU THINK IT'S WRONG THAT HE LOOKS AT HIS EX'S PICS WHILE HIS CURRENT G/F IS IN THE ROOM? Or talks about her?
ME: *signal for an answer*
Gilrs: well of course its wrong because you're not supposed to do that while she is in the room
ME: So do you think he should see them but when she's not around?
Girls: well uhhh if he must
ME: well what about accidentally bringing his ex into the conversation?
Girls: Then i/we would get mad at him for even bringing her up
ME: so what do you think he should do i mean 2 years is a really long time, and she is a new g/f.
Girls: Well maybe he shouldn't be dating
ME: but how will he ever get over her if he does not date?
Girls: True
ME: if you were him, what would you do?
Girls: blah blah blah
MAYBE YOU ALL CAN HELP ME IMPROVE THIS A BIT
This is where you just say oh ok well it was nice meeting you girls, thanks for the advice, but i really have to get back to my friends... |
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| Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 1:16 am Post subject: |
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This is the ex girlfriend routine, I think is from style , I like a lot when he says this part:
He still have a box with all the thing of his Ex, What you think he should do with the box... (mos tof the time girls says : burn it   )
But anyway if you want me to post the complete routine so you can check it out send me a Pm or just ask for it here. |
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