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PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2015 6:40 pm 
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Every girl that has agreed to meet me off of Tinder over the past few weeks, I have backed out on... or pushed the date back... or came up with an excuse not to meet them.

I have a girl right now who wants to cheat on her husband with me.

I could have met probably 4-5 girls over the past few weeks. And I kind of intended to at the time, but then just lost interest when the time came...

Why would I put so much effort into doing something that I don't even end up doing?

And even right now, I am thinking about when I am going to go to a photo shoot so I can put better pictures up on Tinder so I can get more responses. Am I going to back out on them too?


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 15, 2015 4:46 am 
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Maybe you have a bigger mission in life to accomplish? In the past I found myself going through the motions, going out to clubs and putting in a half ass effort when I eventually came to realize I had bigger goals than just picking up girls.

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 15, 2015 4:48 am 
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Maybe you have a bigger mission in life to accomplish? In the past I found myself going through the motions, going out to clubs and putting in a half ass effort when I eventually came to realize I had bigger goals than just picking up girls.
Exactly.... but then again, why all the effort just to back out?

It's happened about 6 times now. I should go meet one and I'm sure I will see a lot of sticking points that I have. It would be like a rapid-fix session where I notice my current sticking points. I need to do this big time. I know for a fact I am not looking for a relationship from anyone on Tinder.


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:00 am 
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I know for a fact I am not looking for a relationship from anyone on Tinder.
And there is nothing wrong with that. Go for what it is you do want.

There was a time I just went out to look cool with my buddies out downtown. Coming from this place it was 100 times harder to face any of my sticking points because what I really got into the game for was to find the right girl. When I came from this motivation, it was easy to do whatever it takes to get good at game.

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 15, 2015 6:17 am 
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I know for a fact I am not looking for a relationship from anyone on Tinder.
And there is nothing wrong with that. Go for what it is you do want.

There was a time I just went out to look cool with my buddies out downtown. Coming from this place it was 100 times harder to face any of my sticking points because what I really got into the game for was to find the right girl. When I came from this motivation, it was easy to do whatever it takes to get good at game.
I'm not trying to meet "the right girl." I'm not sure such a thing exists. How did that work out for you? Did you meet "the one?"


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Your scared.

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 15, 2015 4:03 pm 
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I'm not trying to meet "the right girl." I'm not sure such a thing exists. How did that work out for you? Did you meet "the one?"
I gamed ridiculously hard and improved my game like crazy. Then I fell for one girl and then learned that relationships are something completely different than I even thought. Totally changed my whole way of thinking I'm not sure it exists either.
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Your scared.
Try to be more constructive with your posts. Telling the OP he is scared doesn't really help. If you think he's scared, tell him why, and how he can get over it!

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 15, 2015 7:35 pm 
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Your scared.
I agree. And you don't have to be more specific. You don't owe me that.

Scared of... Awkward silences, running out of things to say, her not liking me upon meet, having my bubble burst.
. but it's something I need to do.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 16, 2015 2:00 am 
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Try to be more constructive with your posts. Telling the OP he is scared doesn't really help. If you think he's scared, tell him why, and how he can get over it!
Im not his therapist.

Post how you want, I'll post how I want.

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Try to be more constructive with your posts. Telling the OP he is scared doesn't really help. If you think he's scared, tell him why, and how he can get over it!
Im not his therapist.

Post how you want, I'll post how I want.
I agree to this.


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Im not his therapist.

Post how you want, I'll post how I want.
Contribute to the positive goals of this forum and we're good :)

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Im not his therapist.

Post how you want, I'll post how I want.
Contribute to the positive goals of this forum and we're good :)
Yea but I think I've bothered people enough on here that they wouldn't want to help me.


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