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Just a quick question, do you open with this or is this after some level of comfort has been built? Just want to be 100% with what I am doing when I try this.


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I just sent 24 messages using different variations of this. I'd often start by commenting on something in their profile/pic/user name, a quick 1 sentence intro to show her I actually looked at it :)

let's see how well I do.


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Here is something I recently said to a girl being direct, "Really liked your profile. I wanted to talk to you and see what you are all about. What type of music are you into?"

Yeah believe or not that worked. We just went on a date.

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I ended up with like 40+ messages, had about 2-3 replies (I think 1 I still talk to). Need to work on my pics, had a few guys on here review my profile and I think that's OK.
The ones I messaged? Hb7-9's...sigh


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Haven't been having any luck at all being direct. I usually say something like "Really liked your profile. You seem really friendly so I wanted to shoot you a message and get to know you better." I usually then ask them a question related to their profile and make a joke at the same time. Havent received one message actually. This approach has actually worked worse for me than being indirect.


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ThexTallxNinja3 wrote:
Haven't been having any luck at all being direct. I usually say something like "Really liked your profile. You seem really friendly so I wanted to shoot you a message and get to know you better." I usually then ask them a question related to their profile and make a joke at the same time. Havent received one message actually. This approach has actually worked worse for me than being indirect.


Not for everyone I suppose.

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JSmooth wrote:
ThexTallxNinja3 wrote:
Haven't been having any luck at all being direct. I usually say something like "Really liked your profile. You seem really friendly so I wanted to shoot you a message and get to know you better." I usually then ask them a question related to their profile and make a joke at the same time. Havent received one message actually. This approach has actually worked worse for me than being indirect.


Not for everyone I suppose.


Do you have any advice at all? I've trying to keep my messages short and witty but haven't been able to generate any responses. One would think at least ONE response would be possible.


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Hey there, Could I ask you What do you mean with this ? *Be direct and to the point with who you are and what you want.* ?
I cant imagine How can I describe yourself shortly. For example : Hi Im Umaxer Im so horny student and I want fuck with you :twisted: Its pretty direct I think so (joke) Please May anyone tell me some example or better explain of it.


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This is definitely a valid and reliable method. Of course it doesn't work with every girl. But, I've had the most success online using this method.

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Awesome stuff.


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My entire catalogue of online game (as in from first message to whatever) in the past has consisted of getting 1 number on myspace a few years ago at first attempt of online game. Decided last week to give online a go again on POF, sent a message to a girl commenting on her profile, no reply, read this thread, sent another message to another girl also commenting on profile, got her number within 5/6 messages, have been texting since building rapport and attraction, now just working on a final killer text to try n get the date. Either way it's thus far gone further than expected on a first real attempt at online game, which I put a lot down to loosely following the guide on here.

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Umaxer wrote:
Hey there, Could I ask you What do you mean with this ? *Be direct and to the point with who you are and what you want.* ?
I cant imagine How can I describe yourself shortly. For example : Hi Im Umaxer Im so horny student and I want fuck with you :twisted: Its pretty direct I think so (joke) Please May anyone tell me some example or better explain of it.
In short don't message promising friendship/relationship etc if you don't want that.

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I have no problem with the initial reply for the most part, but I have a problem getting the number, or getting them to text me.

Usually it will be like

Her: interested, asking questions, emoticons, etc.
Me: replying, teasing, etc. Then saying "well I'm gonna log off, text me ########"

Usually I get no text, haha. Even if they are all into it before that.

OR, maybe they're trying to game me by waiting?

-Too soon?
-Bad approach?


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I never go more than 2 emails before pretending like I am short on time and have to go. But I never ask for their number, I just give them mine and tell them to text me later. I'd say they end up texting 6 times out of 10 and end up emailing back with no texts twice. Maybe it freaked the other 20% out, but people stop responding sometimes regardless. I know it SOUNDS weird, but after a few good messages it just starts to feel right. I get girls numbers at the bar after only talking to them for 5-10 mins all the time.


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And one more question. Ok, so I'm finally getting it in my head that it really is best to get the gal while she's all hot from the comfort/rapport/attraction you've built up via internet. I've questioned a few female friends about men trying to meet them(outside the internet) asap after just a few messages.

All five of these friends pretty much said the same thing. "It comes off creepy" "Yeah you know its a 'creeper' when he wants to meet you right away"

This final opinion really bothered me (this is verbatim)

"No matter how smooth he talks or how good looking he his, I still think its weird to meet like right away"

Now, I'm going to do something I try to avoid and ASSUME this: All these "creepers" failed to build ANYTHING up. In fact they probably sent the same message that every HB will eventually receive on the internet. Asking for sex, a date, to cyber, she has h4wT tit5, etc..

I've still continued a more direct game online and recently HAVE BEEN SUCCESSFUL 4/5 times.


Also I think this could be because most of the guys that have tried to meet them so soon from talking online have no game whatsoever. I don't mean to brag but I've had girls actually invite me out after only talking for an hour online. They were my last two girlfriends actually. As long as you don't come across as a complete AFC, or come across as a desperate pervy guy just after sex, it's quite easy, and definately better to meet straight away. I've lost quite a few girls and been LJBF'd from waiting too long to meet face to face.


How in the world can you escalate things that quickly when they are not using the IM. Often you have to wait a day for a one word response with some of these girls.
I've noticed that the more attractive they are the less they will say.

I'll often say something clever/witty and a few hours to a day later receive ":)" or LOL, so then I have to prepare the next message just to receive a "yep".
I'm pretty sure most of them are testing to see how good you are at having a one sided conversation so usually I get bored after a few messages and try to number close which doesn't work out to well. lol


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