And one more question. Ok, so I'm finally getting it in my head that it really is best to get the gal while she's all hot from the comfort/rapport/attraction you've built up via internet. I've questioned a few female friends about men trying to meet them(outside the internet) asap after just a few messages.
All five of these friends pretty much said the same thing. "It comes off creepy" "Yeah you know its a 'creeper' when he wants to meet you right away"
This final opinion really bothered me (this is verbatim)
"No matter how smooth he talks or how good looking he his, I still think its weird to meet like right away"
Now, I'm going to do something I try to avoid and ASSUME this: All these "creepers" failed to build ANYTHING up. In fact they probably sent the same message that every HB will eventually receive on the internet. Asking for sex, a date, to cyber, she has h4wT tit5, etc..
I've still continued a more direct game online and recently HAVE BEEN SUCCESSFUL 4/5 times.
Also I think this could be because most of the guys that have tried to meet them so soon from talking online have no game whatsoever. I don't mean to brag but I've had girls actually invite me out after only talking for an hour online. They were my last two girlfriends actually. As long as you don't come across as a complete AFC, or come across as a desperate pervy guy just after sex, it's quite easy, and definately better to meet straight away. I've lost quite a few girls and been LJBF'd from waiting too long to meet face to face.
How in the world can you escalate things that quickly when they are not using the IM. Often you have to wait a day for a one word response with some of these girls.
I've noticed that the more attractive they are the less they will say.
I'll often say something clever/witty and a few hours to a day later receive ":)" or LOL, so then I have to prepare the next message just to receive a "yep".
I'm pretty sure most of them are testing to see how good you are at having a one sided conversation so usually I get bored after a few messages and try to number close which doesn't work out to well. lol